Thread: Never Dreams

Welcome to Dream Views, Doje. Hope you decide to stay a while.

Now, first off, dream interpretation is an unstable ground, so it is important to understand that when someone offers your an interpretation of a dream, it is open to your own translation. All we can do is offer our perspective.

That said, you have to realize that your subconsciousness is notorious for capitalizing on your fears and insecurities. You have to look at your waking world relationship with your g/f and ask yourself how much you trust her. If you have doubts about whether or not she would be faithful to you if a situation like that were to ever happen in real life, then it is almost 100% certain that your dream world will run with that insecurity and produce nightmares about it. If this was a waking world situation, and you expressed to your g/f how you would feel if she went to meet the man on the computer, how do you think she would really react? Do you think she would say 'screw you, I'm going anyway, or do you think she would understand, and not think about doing anything that would hurt you? That is much more important than what she does in your dream, because simply your Fear that she would say 'screw you, i'm going to meet that man' is enough to cause your subconscious mind to Make her act that way in your dream. Think of it like this: If you're having a nightmare about being in a dark alley, and you're getting nervous, simply the thought of "Damn, I hope no one is hiding behind that car with a knife," is almost a guarantee that someone is going to jump out from behind the car with a knife."

Don't dwell too much on how your g/f acted in the dream, think more about how she acts in waking life, and whether or not you think her reaction in your dream is completely uncharacteristic of her.

My opinion? As far as your relationship, I don't think you have very much to worry about, but you know her more than I do, so only you can really decided that one.

Hope this helps, and welcome to DV once again. 8)

Our subconscience is very good at handing our problems to us on a plater. By problems, I mean usually unresolved personal conflicts or negative emotions lurking under the surface. Our subconscience often will try to make us aware of our problems by showing them to us. In effect kind of saying to us, "Here, this is what your are doing and or feeling. Now pay attention and do something about it!" Your dreams may be telling you, "Your fears and jealousy are tearing you up kid. Get a grip."

Or you could just have an unhealthy addiction to internet porn.

Just kidding.

I've read other nightmares about cheating lovers. Strange thing is that it tends to be out in the open, not secretive. I'm guessing that she is just insensitive to you and your needs.