Thread: A little shy... Can this mean anything? iterpret plz!

Anyone?? This dream is really confusing me

well i guess you like him. That's about it. Also it seems your friends come between you and him so you like him but are worried about him liking someone else. The little finger thingy is probably your mind thinking that because your best friends a little thing could get bigger. Hope!

Originally posted by lost_in_reality
Ok... This might take a while.

I am 13, female, and am in the upper middle-class economic category. I have blond hair blue eyes... blah blah. Both of my parents are together.

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In this dream, I was in a room with Marty, Hilary, and Calli (Names have been changed) Hilary and Calli sat on a couch opposite to me and Marty. The room was run down, but it was well lit and there was no trash. These couches were kind of a beigy gray, and very old and probably saved from the curb. There was a door , which was darkened. It was to my left, on the other side of Marty.

When we went to sit down, Marty's hand was on my lower back. It went to my hand...I remember it was really warm, and he kept it there for a moment. Then he said sorry and took it away.
This happened a few more times, and it was awkward. We ended up holding hands for a few minutes. Well, not really holding hands. More like our baby fingers were entwined. Kind of a shy sort of thing. Like a promise... Then my other friend came, and I'm not sure who it was, since she has a twin. She sat in between us, and then I woke up.

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Marty... Is my friend when we are alone or when Calli isn't around. He tells me about the war, his old town, his brother, his mom, and his dad's work. Sometimes I feel he flirts with me, but he is very shy, and I'm not sure most of the time. I know he really likes Callie, and maybe Hillary. He is tall, with dark brown eyes. (He is caucasian, however) He is turning 15.

Hilary can be suffocating sometimes. She is really nice and likes to give advice, but she makes the truth blunt and clear. She tells it like it is.

Calli is confusing. She also likes to give advice, but sometimes I feel she doesn't like me. I don't know why. But other times she is very nice and supportive.

This is confusing me becasue I like this guy's best friend... Can anyone help?




PS- the pinky thing kind of looked like this

Help with what? The Dream is quite literal, and doesn't seem to be in any way troubling. I would find that there is nothing to worry about.

However, your literary style, for a 13 year old, is surprisingly lucid... I particularly liked the narrative about being "suffocating sometimes".

Perhaps my favorite author of all times was Emily Bronte -- issuing "Wuthering Heights" for publication at just 22 years old, as a first novel... a novel which is arguably the best novel in the English Language.

anyway, it is good to see a young lady of this day and age who is able to express herself.

But regarding your dream... sometimes a dream is nothing more than its description, and it must be evaluated in regards to how you yourself behaved in the dream and the quality of your choices. Did your own dream behavior surprise you? If you acted differently from normal, or in a way for which you now regret, then I would suggest that you go over your behavior in your mind over and over again and resolve to behave differently and better next time -- more in conformance to the way you would wish to behave. Often dreams are not so much about Meaning as about the Choices we make.

Originally posted by Leo Volont


anyway, it is good to see a young lady of this day and age who is able to express herself.

But regarding your dream... sometimes a dream is nothing more than its description, and it must be evaluated in regards to how you yourself behaved in the dream and the quality of your choices. Did your own dream behavior surprise you? If you acted differently from normal, or in a way for which you now regret, then I would suggest that you go over your behavior in your mind over and over again and resolve to behave differently and better next time -- more in conformance to the way you would wish to behave. Often dreams are not so much about Meaning as about the Choices we make.

Thank-you!!! (That's wierd, because my name is Emily!) I'm a writer, so that helps.

It wasn't my behaviour that surprised me, it was his. That might have actually happened if he were not as shy, or if we were alot closer. I just thought this was wierd, because touch, scent, or heat are three things I don't pick up in my dreams. But I vividly remember his hand being very warm, almost like it was real life. .. I don't know, just a theory. I really dont think I like him in that way though... Whenever his best friend comes around my attention is completly on him...