Thread: i'm in love with a girl i've only seen in my dreamsHELP

Well, about that last part (will/can I see her in real life). There are people that will say yes, you will... but I say no, it definitely does not mean you WILL see her later in life. Sure, I'm sure there are women who look like the woman in your dreams (but that's not much of a prediction considering the vast amount of faces in the world), but I believe no, the woman is not a real person, rather... an emotion presenting itself through a character in your dream.

Personally I find if I feel a very strong emotion in a dream, when I wake up it's mysteriously almost completely gone. For example, I'll be crying or mad at someone, but when I wake up I don't feel anything much. Obviously with such a positive experience you'll be thinking about it more though (however as you said you didn't feel it as much when you wake up).

It's up to you to interpret it... but it's likely it has to do with your relationships and such. A dream means nothing when standing alone (well... very little) - it needs some context within the dreamer's life.

Ataraxis has some points.

but there's also the possibility that this is a real person thet you've been meeting astrally. i know not everyone believes in astral projection, and you may or may not, but if you do then you should consider this a possibility. ive met someone in a ''dream'' named juliano. i dont know if he's real or a spirit guide of sorts. i only dreamed about him once. in another ''dream'' i had a couple months later, i met some girls who told me he was in the hospital with some kind of blood infection. i actually wrote all this down in my dream journal if you'd like to read more about this experience, esp. the last paragraph will probably freak you out.

i also had a dream in which i met this other man, and after talking awhile, he told me he died in jan. 2005-kinda freaked me out.

you know, ataraxis, in dreams such as these i always carry over the emotions in my waking life. like with hearing about juliano being sick- i was very worried about it, in fact i still worry when i think about him-and funny, i dont know if he even exists looool.

Oh that's so sad. :(
Being in love with someone that you can't get.
But as Ataraxis said, you can still meet a look-a-like of her.

I once had a dream where I had a girlfriend. It was funny.

Originally posted by Squish
I once had a dream where I had a girlfriend. It was funny.

I've had loads of those.

Perhaps this other girl in your dreams represents your girlfriend, even though she may not look the same.

There does seem to be a connection between this dream girl and your real girlfriend such that you have the dream while sleeping with her. It may have to do with your ideal relationship.