A dream I need to know what it means.

Ok, this girl and I went to the movies, I think we were watching Click, My dreams starts after the movie is over. After the movie, something was said (all I remember is I say "Oh yeah?)and we... kissed. I felt like jumping into the sky, you have no idea. She currently has a boyfriend in real life. Anyway, so we started talking, and she brought up her boyfriend, she said she dumped her boyfriend, and that my kisses were 100x better, but she said that the kiss wasen't the reason she dumped him, it was because of something else, but she wouldn't tell me what that was, and then the next thing I know, huge time skip in my dream, were walking on the beach jetty, and I call her Baby... (it's a big thing with her boyfriend, he always calls her baby and never by her real name, and she doesn't like it) and she got mad at me, and I apologized, and then I woke up. All I wanted to do when I woke up was go back to sleep, to go back into the dream, but I noticed her IM on my computer screen.

About me: I'm pretty much just your regular guy. I am however overly nice and have strong feelings for this girl, I believe she knows this too. I believe sometimes I care to much about people and their problems, and sometimes it really drains me, but I can't help it you know?

It seems as though you have known this girl for a while.
This girl has a boyfriend that you do not think is good enough for her. You want to be with this girl. You feel that you can make a difference in her life, for the good. And by the way you say that she would not tell you why she 'dumped' her current boyfriend, it could have been bad and she knew that she did not want to make you worry. This girl seems to care for you a great deal and yet she is no with you. She feels love for you but mybe more so then a lover, more like a sister.

I hope I helped you out a bit.

Oh and try to feel lighter on other peoples problems. It will help you later on in life. Pick and choose poeple you want to help instead of them all.

The Dream was a warning. This girl is truly hateful. She bitches when people speak to her affectionately. Run and don't look back. they don't get any worse then that.

A friend of mine was very good looking and congenial and had more than enough opportunities with women, and perhaps his plethora of experiences jaded him somewhat, and he used to say "No matter how beautiful a woman is you should realize that some other guy is with her and already tired of her shit".

That pretty girl was able to piss off her old boyfriend. She once loved him, and now she is sick of him, and is beginning to look around for some new guy to plow under. Well, don't get caught up in it.

if she is a lousy girl friend for her present boyfriend, well, there you have it. She is a lousy girlfriend.

Steer clear. Your dream has warned you.

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Originally posted by Leo Volont

That pretty girl was able to piss off her old boyfriend. She once loved him, and now she is sick of him, and is beginning to look around for some new guy to plow under. Well, don't get caught up in it.

if she is a lousy girl friend for her present boyfriend, well, there you have it. She is a lousy girlfriend.

Steer clear. Your dream has warned you.

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That is, of course, assuming two things:

1) That this dream is a literal and fully accurate representation of the real world. And

2) That that was the real reason that she left the other guy.

Mark's take:

I don' t think it's very cryptic, really. Sounds like you like the girl and think you'd be a better boyfriend than the other guy.

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Originally posted by Leo Volont
The Dream was a warning. *This girl is truly hateful. *She bitches when people speak to her affectionately. *Run and don't look back. *they don't get any worse then that. *

A friend of mine was very good looking and congenial and had more than enough opportunities with women, and perhaps his plethora of experiences jaded him somewhat, and he used to say "No matter how beautiful a woman is you should realize that some other guy is with her and already tired of her shit". *

That pretty girl was able to piss off her old boyfriend. *She once loved him, and now she is sick of him, and is beginning to look around for some new guy to plow under. *Well, don't get caught up in it. *

if she is a lousy girl friend for her present boyfriend, well, there you have it. * She is a lousy girlfriend. *

Steer clear. *Your dream has warned you.

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I am not like that at all! I give so much to my boyfriend thats it is sad. I am the kind of person that dose what I am told. I hardly bitch if any, and It is hard for me to find love. I doo not just skip about all over the place. I take what I have and do my best to please. I am not hateful at all. Even when I say I hate you it is not true. I do not think I have the ablility to hate.

Give more of a 2 sided answer to that not just that you think that the girl is no good at all. Bcause it was nto the case this time at all. :mad:

Calm down, KateySux. Leo's post wasn't directed at you, unless you're the girl firestag is talking about, which is doubtful...

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Originally posted by Mark75

I don' t think it's very cryptic, really. Sounds like you like the girl and think you'd be a better boyfriend than the other guy.

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Yeah, maybe you're so much better at being down-trodden and pussy-whipped.

Its understandable. Some men are better at playing with girls then others. Some guys have too much sense of personal dignity to really let go that way.

[quote] I am not like that at all! I give so much to my boyfriend thats it is sad. I am the kind of person that dose what I am told. I hardly bitch if any, and It is hard for me to find love. I doo not just skip about all over the place. I take what I have and do my best to please. I am not hateful at all. Even when I say I hate you it is not true. I do not think I have the ablility to hate.

Give more of a 2 sided answer to that not just that you think that the girl is no good at all. Bcause it was nto the case this time at all.

I would like to say "good for you" but, honestly, I can't.

Afterall, I have a daughter.

Do you think I want my daughter to give up the concerns for her own life in order to please some guy. Of course not!

We are no longer in the Age of Relationships. When Women demanded Equality and came into the Work Place, all that was over.

Men have their Agenda. Women have their Agenda.

Men who surrender to Women are Stupid. But likewise, Women who surrender to Men are Stupid.

Everybody, Men and Women, should decide what is important in life, and what they truly desire to do -- that is they should make up their mind about their own Agenda. And that they should pursue whole-heartedly... and NOT compromise their goals because of what some co-dependent partner demands as a condition for sex.

Frankly, the need for Sex is simply too easy to satisfy for anybody to compromise the Meaning of Life because of it. The Cynic Diogenes was once caught out in the middle of the public square in Athens, right in front of the Parthenon, masterbating. Oh, yuck! Everyone thought it quite a disgrace. But he explained that if it was so easy to satisfy his hunger for the appetite for food as it was for Sex, then they would also catch him rubbing his belly.

One should not compromise the Goals of one's Life from considerations of sacrificing one's self to the likes and dislikes of a silly sex partner.

When a sex partner gets in the way.... Screw 'em.

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Ok, so the first segment is a representation of your want to be with the girl. Pretty natural, pretty literal. However, the second part is interesting. She is no longer with her old boyfriend, and she is with you. Yet, even though you seem to think he didn't treat her right, you are treating her the same, and as a result she gets mad.

My take on this would be that it is showing that you want to be with this girl, but you have an underlying anxiety that you will mess it up if you do get to be with her.

Or, there is one more possibility. You said you were overly nice. I'm going to expand on that and assume that as a result you want the best for her. So perhaps you want to be with her so she can be treated right, but fear that you might not be able to do it. As a result you found youself repeating her boyfriends uncaring actions in the dream.

Just my interpretation, for what it's worth.

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Originally posted by Ryden
Ok, so the first segment is a representation of your want to be with the girl. Pretty natural, pretty literal. However, the second part is interesting. She is no longer with her old boyfriend, and she is with you. Yet, even though you seem to think he didn't treat her right, you are treating her the same, and as a result she gets mad.

My take on this would be that it is showing that you want to be with this girl, but you have an underlying anxiety that you will mess it up if you do get to be with her.

Or, there is one more possibility. You said you were overly nice. I'm going to expand on that and assume that as a result you want the best for her. So perhaps you want to be with her so she can be treated right, but fear that you might not be able to do it. As a result you found youself repeating her boyfriends uncaring actions in the dream.

Just my interpretation, for what it's worth.

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Dude... this is crazy accurate.

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Originally posted by Zera
Calm down, KateySux. Leo's post wasn't directed at you, unless you're the girl firestag is talking about, which is doubtful...

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She is.

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Originally posted by Zera
Calm down, KateySux. Leo's post wasn't directed at you, unless you're the girl firestag is talking about, which is doubtful...

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I am the girl.... And I am nothing as he said I am. Ask Firestag yourself...

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Originally posted by firestag
She is.

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