Okay, after almost two months, everyobdy replying to tiakitty, has given her masturbation tips, or their opinions on masturbation. No-one I have seen has given her an actual interpretation of her dream, which is, I believe, what this forum is all about. So... here's mine:
Originally Posted by tiakitty16
Every night, I have dreams about sex. In the dream, I am with a guy I think is hot in real life, but most of the time it is with Jack Sparrow.
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Well, it's clear to me that this dream is about repressed sexual feelings... I think that's very obvious, and most on this thread have picked up on it. In this case, the dream character on whom your repressed sexual feelings are projected, a sort of token sex object, is your hot guy, and Jack Sparrow. It's very common for a fictional chracter, or movie actor, to be the focus of sexual feelings... actually, to be TOTALLY honest, even as a straight guy, I have to admit, Johnny Depp... yeah. Yum.
Originally Posted by tiakitty16
It started off in a beach, I was riding a black stallion across the white sand, when Jack suddenly appeared out of nowhere, and he scared the crap out of my horse who threw me to the ground and ran off.
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Well, the black stallion, along the white sand, on a beach... well, I can't say anything specific, and I don't believe in a lot of this "dream symbology" stuff, but, this section of the dream seems to convey a certain sense of simplicity, and/or innocence. Jack appears and scares off your horse. Perhaps, this sort of indicates that lust or sexual urges, embodied in the delicious Captain Jack, have "scared away" the horse, who was, sort of, your security maybe? You've been literally caught off-balance in this dream by the intrusion of your sexual urges.
Originally Posted by tiakitty16
Jack strode up to me, picked me up bridal style, and carried me onto the Black Pearl(minus the fact I was out cold).
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You get carried away, somewhat against your will, by your sexual desires/urges, embodied by Jack. I think this is fairly obvious.
Originally Posted by tiakitty16
I woke up to find my clothes had been removed and he was on top of me, I tried to move, but I was tied to the bed. He started to kiss me roughly, I told him to stop but he kept on going. Then he started raping me,
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Okay, in the real world, rape is obviously a terrible thing. But in a dream, it might mean something different. I think in the dream, it means that, your sexual desire, Jack, has taken over. And, you are experiencing this against your will, meaning maybe that you are uncomfortable about this.
Originally Posted by tiakitty16
but halfway through it, I started to really enjoy it. I did a lot of things I never thought I knew. I was enjoying it so much, I decided to stay with him on the Pearl and be his mistress/wife. Now every night I am doing it with him in my dreams.
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You've "given in" to your sexual desire. You've given over to sexual desire and urges, and found yourself enjoying it.
The key thing to remember her, tiakitty, is: DONT panic, don't think that this part of the dream means you fantasise about being raped, or that you have some desire to be raped, or that you might enjoy it. And, don't think yourself "sick" for having this dream. The way I see it, the "rape" in this dream represents an unwillingness or nervousness to engage in sexual activity... even with yourself. Strange though it may sound the "rape" in the dream, I do not believe is meant to be an ACTUAL rape. Does that make sense?
Originally Posted by tiakitty16
I am only in my late teens, but the thought of masturbating has come to my mind quite a few times, but I find the idea of me doing that, revolting, but a small voice in my head says, "you may enjoy it, you don't know until you try." Can anyone help me on this???
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Well, now that I've given an interpretation, I hope you'll let me add my own two cents. This dream, indeicates to me that you are/were considering "indulging" your normally repressed sexual feelings, but, you do so almost against your own will at first, but the dream indicates that... like you say, you are uneasy about doing so.
My feelings: You say you are in your late teens. 16-19? I'd say around 16 or 17, but, don't be offended, that's just my guess. You also seem to come from a very christian family, with very strict views on sex.
I'm not reccomending that you go out and indulge your sexual feelings and have sex. I thin that, at such a young age, this isn't the best thing, and is likely to harm you. Masturbation is a safe, fun, personal way to let yourself indulge your sexual urges, and let go for a little while your "repressive" attitude. I'm not reccomending you look at porn, corrupt yourself, or anything like that. But, I don't think there is anything wrong with masturbation. Totally opposed to what Symbiotic Entity said: masturbation is natural. And, it is a SAFE way of indulging in sexual urges. And, I think at your age, being safe, is of paramount importance.
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