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i had a dream when i was taking a nap. i just wanna know if it has a meaning. i met a girl i used to go to high school with and we went on a date. and i discovered that she was paralyzed. and we went to dinner and i saw some friends from work and what not . later we were driving in my car, and a lady was walking on the street and stoped right in front of me. i pushed on the break as hard as i could but the break didnt work very well it slowed down very slowly. but i didnt hit the women.
When one goes on a date within their dream, it often means acknowledgment of some hidden part of oneself. That you were on a date with someone who was paralyzed may have been a kind of transference--if you will allow the expression--that you feel uneasy about acknowledging said shadowed aspects.
The arrival of your friends and the consumption of food is meant to indicate that you need not worry; you are ready to integrate some new way of thinking or feeling into your being. The act of driving expands upon this concept: You are moving forward.
The woman you successfully avoided hitting represents (of course) love, or perhaps something close to love such as nurturing, caring, or deep concern. It goes without saying that if you had hit her, I would've assumed you'd recently been through a bad relationship or some other mental trauma and were in the process of shutting down emotionally. The fact that your dream entered a kind of "slow motion" state, however, indicates that while the changes occurring in your life should not be avoided, they are stressful.
Sound about right?
yeah that does . wow thanks. so does this mean im going to be ina relationship soon or somthing?
I don't know; you tell me. Is there someone special you've had your eye on? Perhaps now is the time to act.
ADDENDUM: I should point out that I really don't find dreams to be in any way preternatural; dreams only tell you what you already know.
hmm lol yeah i have had interest in someone lately. "that you feel uneasy about acknowledging said shadowed aspects." what does that mean?
oh by the way the part where i almost hit someone that happened twice. onece with a women and the second time right afterwith another car. i almost rearended them. but didnt
Well, I simply mean that you aren't comfortable allowing something to surface. In this case, I'm going to go out on a limb and theorize that you are the shy type and/or worry about the possibility of rejection. You know, that horrible moment when you've handed someone your heart and they crush it into a wet, crimson, pulpy mess right in front of you (and possibly others). You know the one.
At the risk of sounding mind-numbingly cliché, you simply have to take that chance. Love just works that way--or so I’ve been told. I really wouldn't know; I'm simply a cat.
P.S. Sorry about all the edits; I'm something of a perfectionist when it comes to writing. I don't care much about sentence fragments and passive voice, but I do care about spelling and sentence structure.
yeah i am actually that type lol. im afraid this girl won't like me at all. but ok, thanks for you help man :P
I wish you luck. Meow.