Prejudice Wedding

Before Dream:My best friend is getting married and when she found out i was dating another race she started showing her prejudice side. She is however still wanting to be close friends with me without him being around. She wants me to attend her wedding but has forbid me to bring my boyfriend. My boyfriend has convinced me to go b/c he said if n e thing were to happen b/n me and him or me and her that I might regret not going since her fiance is my cousin. I honestly at this time is so hurt by her sayings that I don't care if I go or not.

Dream:I dreamt that I went to my friends wedding and there was no one there. I go to find out way and find that my friend has already been married and they changed the date and didn't care to inform me. I was really pissed off b/c they didn't let me know. I was hurt. I cried and was ticked. I was so hurt and felt betrayed.

After Dream: I woke and was feeling sad and when I came to the realization of the dream I didn't know y I even cared. Can n e one tell me what they think the dream means.

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Hello,

It sounds to me like you might care more than your waking self is ready to admit. Could it be that your dream might be your unconscious mind working through this rift with your friend and you're using the upcoming issue of the wedding to do it, since it is big in your mind and the first decision you have to make about how your relationship with your friend will continue? It seems like your unconscious mind is perhaps asking whether you would really 'not care' if your friend cut you out of her life, as represented by excluding you from her wedding (one of the most important milestones in anyone's life!) perhaps, or if she stopped being your friend. It seems like the answer is that you would care, since that was the response your dreaming mind gave you.

Hope that helped!

As an aside, I think your boyfriend has given you some very wise advice. He seems to be dealing very well with the prejudicial situation and keeping your best interests in mind instead of getting angry or asking you to choose sides. Best of luck with the unfortuanate triangle that has developed. I hope everything works out for the best.

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It is because I moved it here! :D

This does help a lot and actually she called me last night and this is the first time she has called me in forever it seems. It was weird I had the dream the night before she called. She was making sure I was still coming to her wedding she said it means a great deal to her if I were to show up. I didn't realize how much it means to me to be there until she had told me that. I agree with you about what you have said and I am glad that I had the dream. She actually seems to be looking past the prejudice issue by not mentioning it like every time before. Thank you so much. Your advice is very helpful.

I am sorry that I posted in the wrong spot. Next time I will try to get it right. But thanks for putting it there for me any way as you can see I am a newbie just trying to figure out my dreams.

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This does help a lot and actually she called me last night and this is the first time she has called me in forever it seems. It was weird I had the dream the night before she called. She was making sure I was still coming to her wedding she said it means a great deal to her if I were to show up. I didn't realize how much it means to me to be there until she had told me that. I agree with you about what you have said and I am glad that I had the dream. She actually seems to be looking past the prejudice issue by not mentioning it like every time before. Thank you so much. Your advice is very helpful.

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That's pretty cool that she called you. It seems like you were both having really strong feelings about what you felt was the right thing to do. =)

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That's pretty cool that she called you. It seems like you were both having really strong feelings about what you felt was the right thing to do. =)

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I actually talked to her today and she is so excited about me going and I actually feel as though its making me and her close again.

well I believe that you can translate dreams like these into a kind of quote which sums up your feelings. Its often very symbolic and hidden. Maybe this dream captures these feelings inside you

"My friend seems to care enough to send me an invitation but she does not show enough real interest in me in order to allow me to bring my boyfriend with me."

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I went to the wedding last night. I actually went to her moms house hours before the wedding and helped her get ready. We talked about everything seems to be getting better. We actually talked about my man without any rude comments coming from her or her mom. Her mom actually said he sounded like a good guy. It was a good wedding regardless it being on Valentines Day. Thank you so much for hearing me out on all this.

It's good that this has all finally worked out. It's too bad it had to be a rocky road, but it does seem to have lead to a good place. Your friend has perhaps grown (as well as pulling off a successful wedding!), so maybe through your adversity in this you've actually had a chance to really help her out by helping her to see past her own prejudices. I wouldn't expect that to happen all in a day - might be a rocky road for her, too - but at least she's starting on it.