sex dream

About a month ago I cheated on my gf with some 30 year old that i met at a bar while on a business trip with my dad and his (mine too) friends. I am 21.

all of the sudden i have been having dreams about having sex with random people. Today I took a nap...The setting was in a full sized movie theater located in someones house. I was with my dad and his friends. Here we watched a live presentation of "Cash Cab" (a discovery channel show) which is weird to start with. My friends sat in their seats. For some reason i sat across the aisle from them next to this old lady (maybe 50, weird i know) with her husband. After awhile my hand accidentally touched her breast. This turned into me wanted to touch it again. So slowly i made my move and began to fondle them which she accepted. Then i put my finger in her mouth and she started sucking. Then she got on top of me and started humping. Her husband finally noticed and I went to sit with my amigos across the aisle.

I woke up for a minute then fell back asleep. This time i had a dream of some girl that i noticed always had nice boobs back in highschool. I was at the bowling alley where she worked and we wanted eachother. Of course (like always) my dreams never get to the actual part of havign sex for some reason.

why am i having these dreams?

maybe ur feeling guilt for cheating your gf

Welcome to Dreamviews. :)

You may be interested in the Dream Interpretation forum if you want others to help you figure out what the dream means. I personally don't believe that dreams have any special meaning, but I find that I generally dream about something if I've been thinking about it a lot.

Also, having sex in dreams is very common, lucid or not lucid. Many people have problems with controlling the desire for it during their first few lucid dreams.

I firmly believe that dreams can translate into everyday thoughts such as "I cannot seem to keep my sexual urges under control." Such a dream meaning would make sense in this case. You just realise that you are attracted to different women in the dream. The dream also seems to feature women who are different types. You have attractions to older women(a relationship with a 30 year old) and also attractions to girls your own age.
Its extremely difficult to translate dreams exactly. Your dream could link to some other thought about the relationship "I like older women yet I am also attracted to younger girls too"
Dreas though do tend to sjhopw you what themes are importamt. your relationship and cheating is obviously important.
One way to truly tell what a dream means isd to write down some quotes which capture your feelings right now. How would you sum up how you really truly feel right now? thats probably the meaning of the dream. Dreams capture our inner feelings...

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The dream mind is a conceptual mind. So expect the meaning of a dream to be a conceptual meaning. Try to think about the ideas and emotions that are forming in your mind. Dreams can be about health issues, they can be about relationships, they can simply reflect some paranoias in your mind. Simply put dreams are about the STUFF in your mind. So instead of trying to interpret the dream try to think about ideas forming in your mind.
Whats more dreams concentrate on new feelings. They capture those moments when your feelings change. For instance the moment when you started to mistrust your boyfriend. Try this page as it shows you how to spot the issues which trigger dreams
http://www.unclesirbobby.org.uk/dreamessayhowto.php
Learn how to capture in quotes the concepts and ideas that will be the subject of your dreams
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