Choked by girl with hairy arms

Several years ago,as a teenager, I would have a very similar dream over and over several times a month. This went on for several years and would always involve some girl that I was sweet on at the time, even if the girl did not know it. Sometimes it was a girl I was dating. Other times it may be a girl I had a crush on that did not even know me.

In one dream I remember, I was standing in the doorway of a motel room with my back to the hallway. All of a sudden, a very strong, hairy, yet still feminine arm came around my throat from behind and put me into a sleeper type choke hold. I tried to get out of it, but never could. Just before passing out, they let me go. When I turned around, it would be the girl that I was sweet on standing there playfully laughing at me as if she had been playing a joke and not intended to harm me.

Another one I dreamed that I was on a camping trip with a girl. The girl and I were camping together,but with seperate sleeping arrangement. She had a tent, and I was sleeping outside on the ground.
It started raining real hard, and I wanted to get into the tent, but she would not let me. So I pushed my way in anyway.So to get me out of the tent, the girl puts me in a sleeper type choke hold just as in the other dream. Her arm was also just like the girl's in the other dream in it was strong,hairy yet feminine. After I was choked senseless, she shoved me out of the tent.

The other one I remember was me and a girl at our School's Prom or Homecoming dance as we were dressed up pretty nice. Upon leaving the school, we noticed that the parking lot was a big field of mud, and we would have to walk thru it to get to my truck. She did not want to get muddy, so I offered to carry her. I picked her up fireman style and started walking. About halfway to my truck, I slipped and fell, dumping her into the mud, covering her dress. She was angry at me and just as in the other dreams, put me into a sleeper type choke hold with strong,hairy feminine arms...

As you can see, the common thing in all these dreams is that they end by me being choked from behind as in a sleeper hold, and when the arm goes around my throat from behind, I always notice that it is very hairy, but still feminine and not like a hairy man's arm would look???

I am in my 40s now,happily married and have not had this type of dream in several years...

Anyone have any idea what it means to have constant dreams about being choked by girls with hairy arms???:?:?

Any replys???

Hey my dream was similar.- I guess I didn't think I was sweet on this girl until We were hanging out in my dream. We were close and about to kiss when she grabbed my hand and put it on her arm, And it was hairy, wolf like. This is the closet dream to hair and arms I've found. I don't understand what it means. Maybe its about temptation and things not being as beautiful as they seem. ???

In one dream I remember, I was standing in the doorway of a motel room with my back to the hallway. All of a sudden, a very strong, hairy, yet still feminine arm came around my throat from behind and put me into a sleeper type choke hold. I tried to get out of it, but never could. Just before passing out, they let me go. When I turned around, it would be the girl that I was sweet on standing there playfully laughing at me as if she had been playing a joke and not intended to harm me.

Another one I dreamed that I was on a camping trip with a girl. The girl and I were camping together,but with seperate sleeping arrangement. She had a tent, and I was sleeping outside on the ground.
It started raining real hard, and I wanted to get into the tent, but she would not let me. So I pushed my way in anyway.So to get me out of the tent, the girl puts me in a sleeper type choke hold just as in the other dream. Her arm was also just like the girl's in the other dream in it was strong,hairy yet feminine. After I was choked senseless, she shoved me out of the tent.

The other one I remember was me and a girl at our School's Prom or Homecoming dance as we were dressed up pretty nice. Upon leaving the school, we noticed that the parking lot was a big field of mud, and we would have to walk thru it to get to my truck. She did not want to get muddy, so I offered to carry her. I picked her up fireman style and started walking. About halfway to my truck, I slipped and fell, dumping her into the mud, covering her dress. She was angry at me and just as in the other dreams, put me into a sleeper type choke hold with strong,hairy feminine arms...
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:)In all dreams houses represent one's state of consciousness, so the first dream setting is a Motel showing that at this time in your life (of the dream) events that were transpiring were only Temporary and this phase would soon pass from your life. Doorways represents opportunities and here in the dream you are looking into the opportunity of being with your crush. What you did not expect and what you got in the dream was being unexpectedly being put in a chokehold by a girl with hairy arms. Arms represent our Actions, being Hairy suggests a certain Primitive quality about that person and perhaps the person was immature and not as evolved as you had hoped for. Whe n you turn to face her she is her sweet innocent side again. Ok...summing that up...at that time of the dream you had a crush on a seemingly innocent and nice, apparently harmless and temporary relationship or friendship with a girl . You were being warned in the dream that this girl might not want to let you go (put you in a choke hold) all the while outward appearances were that of a sweet young thing.

Dream 2.......The second dream is very similar with only a mild difference. You and a girl were going camping, again a Temporary residence and you wanted to "get inside the tent"...ok, wink wink, we all know what "pitching a tent "is about, and most likely you were having just normal wishes and desires of a young male teenager. But this time in the dream you were being cautioned not to push too hard to get your way...or you would suffer the consequences. The girl in turn would be aggressive in keeping you away. Perhaps not in the most ladylike manner.

Dream 3.....This sets the stage where you and girlfriend are having the perfect relationship, being at the Prom suggests the most happy carefree time in highschool, dancing having fun. A parking lot is a place where "cars park" or go nowhere...so it may be the relationship (with this girl in the dream) was "going nowhere" literally and to get "thru it" to your truck (or end the relationship)you would be the one to "carry the load" . She did not want to get muddy.....Mud represents Gossip. So the girl did not to publicly carry any blame or accept any wrong doing in the end of the relationshp. So you let her know you would "man up" and accept this. But regardless of your good intention...you slipped (maybe verbally in a conversation with a friend told the truth and gossip got out...or rather she fell in the mud) Mud covering her dress....Clothes are our personalities...(and we can change them) She got made because she might have been talked about.

To sum it up......You are attracted to a certain kind of female, very sweet, feminine, innocent and yet you are in shock when the woman sneaks up on you with an aggressive, choking the life out of you, hanging on....immature and primitive personality. Perhaps you have not had this kind of relationship since high school..but you are remembering it now so it means that you should not be caught unexpected (from behind). I think it also means that you need to be in a relationship willingly and any breakups should be upfront and honest. You don't react well to a woman who would turn on you and threaten you.
.....just my thoughts
TL