i'm clueless

any help would be very much appreciated.

ok, for awhile i've been having a recurring theme in my dreams. some random boy (sometimes i know them sometimes i dont) wants to show me affection or love. they want to love me. and the only affection i show towards them are hugs. but that's it. and i push them away and say how i cannot love them. and i have atleast one of these dreams (that i know of) a week.

and then for like the past few years i've been having dreams where i have to hurry to finish something or someone is rushing me or i might be late for something. and it's not like it happens every once and awhile. i remember two-four each month. i guess that would be considered frequent. but i'm not sure.

again, thank you for any thoughts you can give.