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Penis in a woman's dream Your relationship with desire to a mate; relationship with your male characteristics such as ambition, work capacity, aggression, intellect; depicts the relationship with genital sexuality with your partner.
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Vagina refers to much more than a woman's sexual feelings and drives. It dipicts the processes and urges of her being that are the foundation of her waking personality. The ability to procreate; the glandular bias that connects with what the conscious personality faces in emotional, mental and physical disposition; the caring, nurturing feelings that emerge out of sexual mating when healthy; the desire for a mate; the sense of connection and identity with other women, other female creatures and female aspects of nature.In its positive aspect it may represent the sure confidence with which a woman may demand from her man that he treat her womanhood with the respect it deserves. This means meeting the full flood of her sexual need with its desire for a child, a caring and supportive nest to rear that child in, and her female creativity that may rise from the basic reproductive drive into social creativity and personal demand for respect.
Perhaps the dream is suggesting that you have a much greater desire for respect and nurturing feelings over that of ambition, work capacity, etc, although those things do play an important role in your life. As with all dream interpretations each person will find their own take. Only you would know best. I hope this helps you in some small way. :)