need to know what it means

With in the last 2 weeks i have had a 2 dreams alot of like i will tell u them both then mabye yall can help me

dream 1

i was on a type of reservation (not motern) and the head leader wanted me as his wife but i being matern felt i had gone back in time they were preping me to be his wife. none but this one guy could speak english and he was telling me what was going to happen. i was traped by the native people and they felt i was the chosen one but i felt like i had gone back in time thats when i found my cell phone and know i was not crazy then i looked up and i saw people from my time walking around above me as if i was in a room below them like i was in the museum and they were looking in but noone was saving me. in this dream it just ended and i dont know if i get away

dream 2

i was in a place like indea and i was gona be this guys 10th wife his last one he could have and i was agian the chosen one. this time all the wives are happy but i once agian knew i was an american. still being preped to be married but i get away with me and a nother wife and her child at one point i left them behind. i had to get in a boat and row my way out of the city and then some guys were chasing me and i had to get away from them.

in my real live i am in a long term relationship and we are happy and i feel very happy in my life i have just started to look into wicca and started meditating, reading about gems and oils. so i feel right now i am very open to meanings and dreams i cant find anything about being a chosen one or escaping a life that i know is not mine or even something that happends here

I would say you are feeling trapped in your relationship- in one way or another. Perhaps you see marriage as an unnecessary tradition. Because you are always taken to a primitive time or place, it seems to me that your torn between modern beliefs and "primitive" traditions. Do you feel more superior than your mate? More enlightened or open minded? Being chosen indicates to me that you feel more "deserving" than other people or more "special".

It could also be connected to your new spiritual beliefs. When a person is very devoted to a course, cause, job etc. they're said to be "married" to it. The dreams would make a lot of sense if your being tormented by your choice (either from yourself or someone else). A lot of people see magic as "primitive".

Just my 2 cents.
I hope you find the answers soon.