I believe that we as humans are naturally drawn to merge with each other (as we were before we were born and in some ways for a while after) and that sex is the nearest we can get to merging with someone.
Often people report that it wasn't the sexual excitement itself that was the overwhelming feeling in the dream but rather the feeling of being one with someone and how natural that seemed. If that was your experience, then I think you're fantasising about your earliest memories but as you don't have real memories (only feelings etc) of those times you replace them with more familiar memories. In this case, what the dream doesn't mean is that you want your boyfriend back. Indeed many happily married people dream of sex with people other than their husband/wife.
On the other hand if the dream was mainly about excitement then it could well be that you wish for him (or someone like him) to be your sexual partner.
In both cases, the dream represents a wish. The difference is what your feelings were, as these give bigger clues to what buried in your unconscious.
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