Weird beach house and bathroom

I was with my dad, brother, the little girl in my previous dream and my husband. My dad took me, my brother, my husband, and the little girl to this weird beach house. It was evening time when we went through this tunnel which had a stream in the middle leading us there. Once we got there, the ocean was on the left of us and the beach house was on the right. We crossed the stream and went towards the beach house. We came upon a huge spacious dance hall. The floors were wood, the ceilings and walls were wood. There were gas lanterns surrounding the room against the walls one by one. The room had a vast window showing the view of the beach. The room looked pretty empty and had a few round white patio tables. So we all sat down at one of them near the vast window, looking over the beach. I got up and decided to go to the bathroom. The little girl got up with me but she went over to the window and started twirling and dancing. As I went to the bathroom it was very odd. Especially, the entrance of the bathroom. It was like a really steep staircase going up to a second floor and it had no steps, it was just a steep slope made out of concrete and stones. It was on my left. On my right it was the same thing a steep slope stairway with no steps. There were no signs that said men or women’s so I just assumed the left side was women’s. I don’t know how I was going to get up this slope of a staircase. It was so steep! Almost like a wall. I had knee boots on with a three inch heel so I decided to take my boots off. I ran and jumped up the stairway, struggling and grasping tightly to the stones that were sticking out of the cement. Luckily, I was half way up the stairway. As I hurdled myself over the stairway, I finally got to the bathroom. I stood up and the whole room was covered with sand. The room was shaped like an octagon and there was a pathway to the my right leading to another room. To my left, which was another bathroom but I didn’t go into it until later. This room confused me, in the middle of the room was a sandbox that was also shaped liked an octagon. There was sand in it also. The room was built like the sloped stairway, stones and concrete, except for the sandbox was made out of wood. There were four toilets in the back of the room facing toward me. They had no stales; it was just all open with little windows behind each toilet. “Odd” I thought. “How am I going to have privacy with no stales”? I went to the other room on my left and the room was just like the other except no sandbox, three toilets with windows behind them and no stales. This room seemed darker inside. It didn’t seem well lit except for the windows that gave some light from outside. I glanced around the room and viewed the toilets. They were really dirty and had sand filled in them not water. I thought “odd and gross”! I went to the previous room and viewed the toilets there and again odd and gross and filled with sand. “How am I going to go to the bathroom”? I thought. Suddenly, I heard some people coming up the stairway. It looked like a short elderly couple and seemed to have no problem coming up the stairway like I did. They just kind of looked at me and I looked at them and went into the room on the left. “Umm odd”. I thought again. “How am I still going to go to the bathroom”? Well I just decided to strip half-way naked and use the bathroom on the sand, in a corner of the room. “No one will know” I thought. “Besides, I don’t want to use the dirty toilets”! All of a sudden, a group of people from the room on the right come bursting out in a single file line singing a marching song, and went down the sloped stairway. I quickly grabbed my pants and covered myself. “How am I going to do this”! I thought frustratingly. “There is just no privacy”. I decided to just forget it. “There’s no toilet paper in here anyways, not even a bathroom sink! “ How am I supposed to wash my hands”? I thought. Then I found it hard to put my pants on! I couldn’t put my pants on!

It seems to me that you're not using the correct tools/methods to get what you want, patio table indoor, steep stairs ( dificulties ), no paper, water to wash your hands, maybe too far , not being able to clean your hands maybe you get dirty ( unfavorable situations when using those tools/methods ). usually dreams indicate how things are happening now.