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      Weird dream..i need help understanding it

      First id like to say hello to everyone this is my first post

      Well four days ago i woke up almost in tears(almost crying) and really tired. i am not one who usually gets too emotional over dreams and such(programmer by trade....very logical minded). But anyways it was a dream within in a dream experience. The part i remember i was sitting down with what looks like my wife or girlfriend(mind you i never had a girlfriend before and currently single a personal choice until i finish college), she was blonde and wearing a blue shirt and i remember holding her hand saying "i just dont want to lose you" and im upset about it........then i suddenly wake up in my room questioning reality.. whether or not that was real or fake i wandered around my room and it was really upsetting me.....then i suddenly wake up in reality feeling really tired and weird feeling. the whole three days since, i've been having this gut feeling i should be crying, like i should be sad or crying from happiness i cant explain it.
      i usually dont remember most of my dreams, i remember bits and pieces, but i remembered this one in detail because im assuming its my subconscious tell me that it is important. i am a 21 year old male(if that says anything). stuff like this usually doesnt bother me much at all(i usually just blow it off and move on), but this the first dream i have had that has really touched me......i still get a tad emotional thinking about it(the gut feeling), so i cant let it go.. id like to hear second opinions from you guys, because it helps me gain perspective on this. its been four days and i still remember it vividly.

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      Welcome to Dreamviews!

      In regards to your urge to cry, I haven't experienced it myself but I recall a topic about it a while ago. Your subconcious is really powerful and can make you believe crazy things. Maybe your mind is telling you something?

      I'll edit this when I find the topic.

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      well i would like more insight not so much the crying, but about the woman, hold hands etc etc...

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      http://dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?t=91332

      This was the topic. This guy met a DC and developed an emotional attatchment similar to what happened to you I believe.

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      Hey Slayn,

      I'm not an expert or anything, but I can tell you this much...

      Dreams are generated when the logical center of the brain is shut down, and often they can include strong and irrational emotions. The brain seems to sort of fire off its parts sometimes at random, almost like its running diagnostic tests on the various systems (at least that's how I like to think of it... I'd like to hear from some of the more knowledgeable members about this).

      But... another possibility that occurred to me from reading what you wrote...

      You said you're 21 and never had a girlfriend? Your subconscious could be telling you you're missing out. That might be your 'potential' GF -- representing the happiness a relationship could be bringing at this stage of your life. You've left adolescence behind now and heading into full adulthood. So maybe your subconscious is basically saying Dude... the clock is ticking.

      I don't know, it's just what popped into my head. I've been wrong before.
      Last edited by Darkmatters; 02-12-2010 at 11:32 AM.

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      you could be right.....i dunno

      i mean i spent the last 5-8 years of my life focusing on my career goals(still am)
      just this dream really struck me and it left such a great impression i haven't been able to let go. im curious to hear more expert or no expert just second opinions from people outside my head

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