For the third time!! this is hacking me off now...

Yet another dream of jealousy and conflict, the third one in a week.
Kelly and i are arguing over graeme, i'm not sure what the argument's about, but i know i am very angry with her.
yet again i feel i am getting nowhere.
This is the third dream of this nature in the last week, what the hell is going on?

can anyone shed any light on this?
all i know is that this girl's been treating me like crap, so it could be something to do with the fact that i want to beat her down, so she can't mess me around again, but why is it recurring on me?
'tis getting boring...

For me, when I have a lot of anxiety or stress about certain parts of my life or about things I'm avoiding, it ends up being manifested in my dreams every couple weeks. Perhaps you need to assert your needs to this person in a way that supports resolution rather than furthering conflict. The recurring dream may disappear on its own even if you do nothing about it, but the underlying stress will remain, so be good to yourself !

well, she's impossible to talk to, so i think that's going to have to wait, but as for being good to myself, i am taking a holiday next week, so there's my chance eh?
thanks for the advice though!
and the situation is way more complicated in real life!

The best way to understand dreams is to wait until something big happens in your life that you cannot stop thinking about. that is almost sure to generate a dream. Arguments will often not leave your mind and its this that causes a dream. your dream recurs because you were constantly fighting with your friend

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Kelly and i are arguing over graeme[/b]

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what is graeme?

just wondering if this might shed more light on the dreams reoccuring

Graeme is a person, someone i work with...i find it amazing that this thread has been dragged back from the depths, being as the dream was long forgotten!
I'm not sure interpreting it now has any relevance...