Dream about love/sexual encounter?

**Eoin** · 06-30-2010 10:04 PM

Before I delve into the details of this dream I just hope I am not judged by it's contents xD

OK, so like any other guy (I hope), I do watch porn every now and then. There is one porn star in particular who I found to be very attractive, and I'm talking outside of her work, she just seemed to have a certain air about her, very beautiful etc. I know it's weird!

Anyway, last night I had a random dream where we met. What is strange in this dream is that I was much, much more aware and in control than in other dreams. At first we were just walking around a town, talking and sharing stories etc. It was like we knew each other already, as I cannot remember an introductory conversation or anything.

Anyway, we kept talking, and it was a very clear dream, I could make it out perfectly, all the sounds images and smells etc, I could even hear myself speak and was in full control. Anyway, I was woken up by something, and to say the least was very, very annoyed! I prayed for a miracle that I could wake to sleep and be back in the dream again, and low it behold, I did! I was so happy to be back in the dream with her

When I returned to the dream I was in a different place with her, she was dressed differently, she had a dress on or something, we were in a forest at midnight, but there was lights around us, maybe coming from fireflies or the moon or something. It was a very, very romantic scene, I could feel the attraction full on! We were talking about love and relationships, and she told me I was a very sweet and nice/caring guy, I couldn't believe it and was flattered to say the least

Then came the sexual part of the dream, even though it was short. We stopped at one point and we started to kiss. It was probably one of the best experiences of my life even if it was in a dream, it was so vivid. I will admit here I am a virgin and have never passed first base with a girl so I was a little bit scared and nervous (I hope no one judges me for that), She was completely open with me and let me touch her, and vice versa. It felt like we were becoming one person, we were so passionate, I had never felt like that before. We were fully clothed for this part if it's any help

I then undid her top and started to touch her breasts, she said it was OK for me, and not to be shy. She said I could do what I wanted and she loved me, and that it felt good for her. I actually began to suck on her breasts, and I believe this is symbolism of motherhood? It was great. Now, here's the interesting part, and is a little weird. I've only ever had a few sexual dreams (none as vivid as this one). When she went to touch me or undo my clothing my body kind of got a shock, it felt bad. It happened to me in a few dreams before, is this normal or? That is all the dream was, I then woke up

Any feedback is greatly appreciated, and I hope I didn't describe it too weirdly or whatever

**Squaddle** · 06-30-2010 10:39 PM

What kind of feedback are you looking for?

**Eoin** · 06-30-2010 10:56 PM

Well this IS the interpretation forum if I am not mistaken..........

**kookyinc** · 07-01-2010 02:57 AM

I'd suggest that, for the most part, this dream is just your hormone levels getting high and your body letting off some steam.
Do you masturbate often? No need to actually answer for us as that is rather personal. If one does not masturbate or have sex often, those hormone levels get high and sex dreams like this can happen more often or be more vivid. I think. I don't think that there is much to this dream other than a sex drive and your thoughts on who would be an attractive mate.
The boob touching and such is possibly a symbol of motherhood, maybe your subconscious suggesting she would be an ideal mate for you and an ideal mother of your children. The shock is a curious thing. Are you nervous or afraid about sexual contact?
Hope this helps. Sorry, I'm really more analytical and logical than emotional.

**Eoin** · 07-01-2010 03:31 AM

Yes I do masturbate often. Yes the shock feeling is weird, I mean it's like the feeling you get in sleep paralysis if you have ever experienced that, like a jolt or kind of feeling that makes you want to take a step back. Yes, I am a little self conscious about my image and weight, maybe I was afraid to show my body or something?

**kookyinc** · 07-01-2010 04:09 AM

Originally Posted by Eoin

Yes, I am a little self conscious about my image and weight, maybe I was afraid to show my body or something?

That might be a factor in the shocked feeling.

**sydiswatching1** · 07-01-2010 04:16 AM

Did you just bang your subconscious? NICE. Anyway, in Waggoner's Lucid Dreaming book, he said that what we feel in dreams is a result of what we expect to feel. For example, if you conjured up a fire and put your hand near the fire, you will feel warmth because you expect to feel warmth (just as you could feel this dame). But the dreamer can take advantage of this, and manipulate what he wants to feel. So if you will the fire not to be hot, you will not feel heat when near the fire. Your feelings of apprehension I suppose mirror the emotions you would have as if it occured in real life. So, in order to fix it, you must will what you want in your dream. Give yourself a sexy mustache or something. You can fix physical flaws in dreams. Note that I have not experienced this myself, but am paraphrasing from a well-experienced lucid dream, Robert Waggoner.