Wow a little uneasy

I went into a brief LD were I I floating away from my body. Then I had the alarm go off to get me hubbie to work the my oldest to school. Then i went back to sleep with the question of the month " Who am I" I started Lding again. I was 16 years old and saw my first love. (end of dream) He was 19 and helped me run away from my dad to my mom's because my stepmom use to abuse me bad. I'm 27 now and in my dream I was still 110% in love with this man. I can't get it out of my head. I feel so guilty for loving someone else even in my dreams. All today I look at my hubbie and feel like I am cheating my feelings.

Wow thats intense. But as you may well know that dreams conjure up our deepest desires and emotions especially tied to previous lost loves. Always remember that it's a dream and not your waking reality. I think you should face this emotion again in the dream. Go back and see what it is that is making your feelings so involved with this Ex. And if you have any concerns or questions or confusion. You know where to find me. See ya!

Oh and by the way the last, last very last thing that you should ever do is tell your husband about this dream. NEVER NEVER EVER do that.

NEVER!

it would kill him

As a guy on the receiving end of something similar, all I can say is that it just about did kill me. Shadow is right: You will accomplish nothing by telling your husband. The thing to remember here is that there is a huge difference between thinking about thinks or dreaming about things and actually going out and doing the things that you think or dream about. You should not feel guilty for you have done nothing to your husband by simply dreaming.

Oh, How troublening. Just beacse in yoru dreasm you love another man means its wrong. At one time you did. taht love is probley still there. And im sure you have so much love for your husband as wel, but it may not be the same type that you ahd with this other guy. I once heard that love is never the same twice. That no one can eevr take the place of a peron you once loved, beacse they take up a speical place, a unique shop in your heart. You can still love others without having to destroy all of your old feeliongs. They make you what you are. And the old guy seemed to really hlep you out when you were trouble, so dont feel bad about that. Just try to talk to him in the dream and ask him why he has come to you now. maby he can tell you what is really bothering you, or what you need to do. he oculd be psycholigcly represneting you need for help, and your love for those that help and love you...

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I once heard that love is never the same twice. That no one can eevr take the place of a peron you once loved, beacse they take up a speical place, a unique shop in your heart. You can still love others without having to destroy all of your old feeliongs. They make you what you are.

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Wow This makes a lot of sense. I love the way you put this Barbizzle. This is good stuff..
Thanks for sharing that. :goodjob:

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Wow This makes a lot of sense. I love the way you put this Barbizzle. This is good stuff..
Thanks for sharing that. Good job! [/b]

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Thanks! I always love to share what I think aorund here.. lalal.*barbizzle isnt looking and falls of a clif* whoops... Its late i shoudl be sleeping... haha. goodnight. :roll:

6/9/05

Ok most of my LDs have just been a little weird, this one I feel was worth picking apart.

I felt like I was a teenage in this dream. Age wise anyway. I lived in this dorm like place. Didn't really feel like it was a college dorm more like a group home. Everything seemed like chaos around me. I remember using the bathroom and not getting to wipe and I was obsessed about the fact my was butt was dirty. All of a sudden some girl ran in and told me Ashley and her parents got into a car accident. (which confuses me because Ashley is a little girl that is in my son's 1st grade class and I wasn't married with kids in this dream.)Anyway we jumped into her black SUV and started down the road. People everywhere were having accidents. That and the girl who was driving me wasn't driving well either. I told her to get out and I would drive. Still obsessed with the fact I was unclean I told her I was going to make a stop to get clean and to grab my $40.00. So I pulled into this place no clue really where and I took a shower and changed clothes. When I ran back outside there was two big black guys in the front of the SUV and the girl was in the back. I climbed in back with her and we were off. I noticed the the guy driving made a turn that was away from were Ashley's car accident. I told the girl and she said she knew. We pulled on what should have been a major highway and it was flooded people. They were filthy and beat up. The SUV stopped and I got out. I looked all around me. All I saw was destruction. Overturned cars, smacked houses, and hundreds of people lining this major highway. I somehow seemed to recognize some of the faces covered in dirt. I went to shake the hand of one guy and instead of shaking mine he opened his hand like I was suppose to give him something. I reached into my pocket to look for some money for him and realized I had nothing in my pockets except a pack of Tums. I felt embarassed I had nothing to give. I turned around and saw that disaster relief was handing out food. I want over to them and started grabbing food to hand out. I hand out food until everyone was full. I focused in on a lady in a wedding dress and that is all i can remember of the dream.

Truth is there were millions of details I remember to like the food serve and what people wore.

Wow very extensive.. I love the fact that you are capable of grabbing various details from your dream and continuing to hold on to those details once you've awaken you have a very healthy mind. Chaotic events in a dream ususally intels that your life is either out of oder or somethings worrying you in reference to loved ones. But if you're wearing yourself out trying to take care of more than you're capable of then of course this cause for chaos in ones life. I would suggest trying to take things a little slower in life if the dream bothered you. I know whenever I dream of destruction in the world 99% its when things in my life are out of order. Especially within the relationship. You know how to reach me whenever you need me.. see ya.. :goodjob2:

funny thing was I felt chaos around me the dream itself didn't bother me at all. I was pretty calm about everything except the fact I wanted to shower. I can remember details of a good LD sometimes months. In fact I woke up 3 times during this dream and wanted to know what happened next so I made myself fall back to sleep.