Arguments Over Definitions
I've noticed that way too many arguments turn out to be a mere disagreement over definitions. Since I've started paying special attention to this problem, I've been horrified to see how bad it is, how often it comes up.
This isn't a minor issue. It's something that I've seen waste time in not just informal arguments, but entire halves of formal debates. I find it's often only near the end of an extended frustrating argument that the two arguers finally realize they're defining a central part of what they're arguing about differently. Sometimes, the two people turn out to completely agree over whatever the issue is.
For example, a common word that comes up in atheist-theist arguments is 'faith'. The theist will argue that his faith in God has nothing to do with his evidence for God. He establishes his evidence, and then he believes with his faith. The atheist will argue that this is nonsensical. Only after 15 minutes of arguing over this point will the two figure out that the theist was defining faith as basically a synonym for 'trust' or for 'belief', and the atheist was defining faith as 'belief that is necessarily not based on evidence'.
With this in mind, I think it's very important that, before arguing a point, every participant makes sure that everyone agrees as to how each term is defined. Any arguments over the definitions of terms need to take place before an argument involving those terms.
Common words that I’ve found are ambiguous and can lead to these problems are ‘atheist’, ‘spiritual’, ‘Christian’, ‘love’, ‘faith’, ‘truth’, and ‘knowledge’.
Do you also find that this is a significant problem, or do you disagree? Any thoughts?