Thread: Sooo wish I was a girl.

Originally Posted by kookyinc

You're not bi if you're confused (but you could be confused because you're bi). Sexuality is mostly genetic, or at least can't be changed due to one's desire to feel one way or the other. Thus, you definitely are gay, straight, or bi, you just don't know which yet.

He might have yet to place himself on the Kinsey Scale, too. It can be hard figuring out where you land when puberty is kicking in.

Originally Posted by siuol

it would be fun to have boobs. but not on me, like in a drawer or something. lol im kidding XP. ive never wanted to be a girl forever but a day or two would be cool

That was frightening.

Originally Posted by Alric

Girls can be really mean to each other though. I think socially guys get a long with each other a lot better than woman do.

Definitely. And I get along better with guys than I do with fellow females. Less drama

Originally Posted by Keresztanya

As a transgendered person, I'll be glad to help if you can give any more details. From what you've said, you don't sound exactly transgendered, but I'm not sure.

The main thing that's throwing me off is the "boobs would be fun" thing. I don't really want them because I want to have fun with them, I just feel that they'd be more... natural. How long have you felt this way, and do you have any other examples? It's a pretty serious decision to go through hormones (if you decide to go that far at all) and it's definitely not something to do for fun.
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Yeah, that was just a joke. Boobs play virtually no role in this desire.

Originally Posted by kookyinc

You're not bi if you're confused (but you could be confused because you're bi). Sexuality is mostly genetic, or at least can't be changed due to one's desire to feel one way or the other. Thus, you definitely are gay, straight, or bi, you just don't know which yet. EDIT: Or in between, of course. The point is your conscious confusion has no effect on your innate preference.

Anyway, I've never wished I were a female permanently or seriously. Boobs are nice, though.

Yeah, I guess I'm just confused more than anything.

Even if you do want to be a girl, it doesn't mean you're gay or bi.

Originally Posted by stonedape

Even if you do want to be a girl, it doesn't mean you're gay or bi.

Yeah, they're really separate issues. I wasn't going to bring it up sexuality until I was asked. I feel like I'm confused about both, but separately.

I think the two are often related, but neither is directly caused by the other.

I used to want to be a male when I was younger. There are positives and negatives to both genders, of course. I find I don't naturally socialize the way more girls do, and think it would be a lot easier to interact with people if I were a male. If a male is quiet and stoic in a group, he's probably going to be judged to be intelligent and to have other good qualities. When I do it, it probably seems like there's something wrong with me. I won't go for walks late at night, even though I often feel a lot like walking at that time, and if I were male I might not be afraid. I also get the feeling guys are more likely to be taken seriously. Whatever people say, it seems more normal when a female is lesser in some way than a male, so when I lose an argument or something, although I might feel bad for my own reasons, I probably don't feel as bad as I would if I were male and more likely to be judged. I also sort of enjoy the fact that not as much is expected of me in certain areas. Like with computer programming, when I do really well people are more likely to be amazed than if a male did well.

Overall, considering everything, it's probably a bit easier to be female. I don't at all want to be male, but I don't think I associate myself with my gender as much as other people do. I mean, in my head, while thinking to myself, I 'm neither male nor female. I just don't think of myself in that way.

I'm good being a guy.

Originally Posted by Dianeva

I used to want to be a male when I was younger. There are positives and negatives to both genders, of course. I find I don't naturally socialize the way more girls do, and think it would be a lot easier to interact with people if I were a male. If a male is quiet and stoic in a group, he's probably going to be judged to be intelligent and to have other good qualities. When I do it, it probably seems like there's something wrong with me. I won't go for walks late at night, even though I often feel a lot like walking at that time, and if I were male I might not be afraid. I also get the feeling guys are more likely to be taken seriously. Whatever people say, it seems more normal when a female is lesser in some way than a male, so when I lose an argument or something, although I might feel bad for my own reasons, I probably don't feel as bad as I would if I were male and more likely to be judged. I also sort of enjoy the fact that not as much is expected of me in certain areas. Like with computer programming, when I do really well people are more likely to be amazed than if a male did well.

Overall, considering everything, it's probably a bit easier to be female. I don't at all want to be male, but I don't think I associate myself with my gender as much as other people do. I mean, in my head, while thinking to myself, I 'm neither male nor female. I just don't think of myself in that way.

May be just my opinion but i think life is easier being a girl. Guys think with their dicks. I dunno...maybe i'm just looking too far into some things. I was listening on the radio and they say 80% of women flirt to get out of trouble or get things cheaper from stores. Maybe someone has studdied all this male vs female things, i dunno. Guys seem to get more respected by other guys when talking, although that does not work like that for me. I'm more i respect everyones opinions and stuff offline. Online is online, anyone who judges a person how they really are as a person including offline by how they act online is not very smart.

Originally Posted by Dianeva

If a male is quiet and stoic in a group, he's probably going to be judged to be intelligent and to have other good qualities. When I do it, it probably seems like there's something wrong with me. .

When I'm quiet in groups I don't really feel like people think I'm more intelligent for it. It always makes me feel weird.

Ya when Im quiet in a group people just think Im weird as hell. I try to avoid hanging out with people anyway.
I have also noticed that girls are taken less seriously in conversation which I think is cultural baggage from simpler times.

Being a male or female both have their advantages but I would still want to be a man.
Also if I could be a girl for a day why not?

I like my penis. We get along quite well. I have wondered about what it would be like to be a girl for a day though (as others have said).

I like being a guy, though I'd like acting in some senses like a woman, but not actually have a gender change.

Eeewww! damnnn. I worship women, but hell, I could never even imagine ever wanting to be one. Hell no!!!!!!!!!

Originally Posted by Philosopher8659

Eeewww! damnnn. I worship women, but hell, I could never even imagine ever wanting to be one. Hell no!!!!!!!!!

Hunh. I can understand this post.

Alright, who hijacked Philosopher's account?

*Slowly raises hand*

Nah I'm kidding, I'm completely fine with all this.

I've never wanted to be a guy. I like them a lot, more so than girls, but it doesn't make me want to be one.

I think things would be simpler being a guy though. When guys fall out, they scrap for a bit and then it seems they're best pals the next day. Girls bitch and bitch and bitch and it fucks with my head. Maybe that's just highschool though. I can't really think of anything else at the moment but I like being a girl, though I kinda hate girls who are obssessed with pink, ruffles, and dress like barbie. That's just me though.

Originally Posted by Mario92

Hunh. I can understand this post.

Alright, who hijacked Philosopher's account?

Yeah, I've been noticing that lately too about his posts. They used to all sound something like:
"The real question is whether or not the layers of neurological excavation will reside entirely within the given grammar system."
Lately, some have been making sense.

Did Dianeva just crack a joke...? :O
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Can't say that I'd want to be a girl. Maybe for a day but not for the rest of my life.

Originally Posted by Mario92

He might have yet to place himself on the Kinsey Scale, too. It can be hard figuring out where you land when puberty is kicking in.

The good news is you don't have to place yourself. Just do what comes naturally.

Originally Posted by Philosopher8659

Eeewww! damnnn. I worship women, but hell, I could never even imagine ever wanting to be one. Hell no!!!!!!!!!

You'd have cooties forever!!!

Being a girl's neat, since it's way more socially acceptable for us to assume male roles. Fuck, it's often encouraged. Depends where you look, of course.

Also, feminine anatomical characteristics are generally more aesthetically pleasing (leading to great possibilities for cross-dressing).

And we live longer.

So that's three for three.

It's an interesting thought. I am who I am, and don't want to change that, yet I also would like to see a day or two in the life of a the other gender. Just to be able to put myself in their shoes. So, echoing what seems to be the common response in the thread.

Mind you, I've had several non-lucids recently. The first time, I was like "sdr,jhskdlfjhn??? Penis???" the second time I was like "Oh. Penis. Right.... *touches it*" And the third time I just didn't care.

I'm happy being a girl though

I've had one dream in which I had one ... it scared me in the dream because I thought it was real and was really disturbed and stressed, it was like a nightmare. Then when I woke up I was so happy that it was only a dream.

I have very occasionally wondered what it would be like to be female out of curiosity, but I'm glad to be male myself.

Originally Posted by Mario92

Hunh. I can understand this post.

Alright, who hijacked Philosopher's account?

Clearly you have finally understood the fallacious nature of Plato's claims. It's all an illusion of your egocentric nature. Abstraction is the key to solving this. Search for the truth.

(I guess this is what Philosopher is actually like without the faux intellectualism and constant misuse of words in an attempt to sound smart.)