Age is just potential time. You can waste it or you can use it well. |
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It is often assumed by everyone that people who are older, above the age of 60 or so, possess more wisdom than younger people. I'd like to suggest that in some cases, perhaps in a substantial number, the wisdom of older people is exaggerated. |
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Age is just potential time. You can waste it or you can use it well. |
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Jujutsu is the gentle art. It's the art where a small man is going to prove to you, no matter how strong you are, no matter how mad you get, that you're going to have to accept defeat. That's what jujutsu is.
Okay.. I'se gonna take da bait.. |
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Last edited by Oneiro; 12-02-2011 at 01:16 PM. Reason: spellin'
What did I just read? O.o |
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Jujutsu is the gentle art. It's the art where a small man is going to prove to you, no matter how strong you are, no matter how mad you get, that you're going to have to accept defeat. That's what jujutsu is.
I honestly don't know why we keep people over 30. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 12-02-2011 at 05:03 PM.
I don't think it's fair to judge anyone as unwise. I feel wiser than I did 5 minutes ago but I still get reminded of things that I forget from 6 year olds. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
So then you don't think it's fair to judge anyone as wise either? |
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I'm talking about getting so wound up in a mode of thinking you stop seeing the forest for the trees. Wisdom is a word with a loose definition at best, though I would relate it to experience I think in each stage of life we're undergoing different experiences and have a unique vantage point from that condition. We may acquire more experience as we age, but we also forget what it's like to be someone with less experience and in doing so we lose some wisdom. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Damn you and your Everything viewpoint Omnis Dei! |
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You just want that Xbox |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
I thought about this subject a while ago. I was wondering why older people are always seen as being more wise than younger people, and I hold the same view as the saying Darkmatters quoted. We only gain wisdom through experience. Any ideas or insights passed on to us by others is not wisdom, it's knowledge. And knowledge is not equal to wisdom, for knowledge is given, whereas wisdom is gained. I believe this is the view most people hold, and that is why the old are seen as wise. Old people are more likely to have gained a great degree of wisdom in their long lives than any young person could in the short time they've been alive. |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 12-02-2011 at 06:38 PM.
The advantage in perspective that some older people supposedly have comes from the fact that older people have already been young and younger peole have not yet been old. |
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Ok this is another topic that I can't stop thinking about. I apologize in advance. And sorry HS, too busy typing to come at you right now.. |
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For me, the greatest wisdom has come through raising children. Having children forces you to think of someone other than just yourself. You don't have to have children to achieve this, but having them forces the issue. |
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Exactly!!! I was just going to say this: |
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I am also finding my self supporting crystallized vs fluid intelligence form. When you have lived long enough you usually have so many tested options for every situation. Although, the wisest people in my opinion never lose their fluid intelligence. Fluidness and flexible approach backed up by confidence by experience is key to good choices. |
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Jujutsu is the gentle art. It's the art where a small man is going to prove to you, no matter how strong you are, no matter how mad you get, that you're going to have to accept defeat. That's what jujutsu is.
I'm also thinking it's important at what age you have certain experiences. |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 12-02-2011 at 07:53 PM.
Yeah I definitely don't agree with that last part (but I agree with everything else you said). That may be a general path people travel on but it's certainly not connected to the development of the brain. People can mature through those stages much faster than he suggests. I'm sure the brain goes through changes, but I'm thinking more to the realm of focus and temperament due to hormones and development, I think psychological development is more experience related. There are definitely distinct psychological stages that can be identified and associated with age but I wouldn't associate them with any particular revelations. I see it more like a flower, the flower doesn't need to learn anything to begin a new stage in its life but something in it reaches proper maturity and a change occurs. |
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Last edited by Omnis Dei; 12-02-2011 at 08:06 PM.
Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Something I was reading for school really puts this issue in perspective. It was about social learning in animals but I can't help but see the parallels in human society. It was basically shown that in an environment that changes slowly, transmissions are vertical, meaning most of the relevant things to be learned come from parents to offspring. But in an environment that changes quickly, transmissions tend to be much more horizontal, meaning things learned come more from peers. |
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Last edited by Dianeva; 12-03-2011 at 02:33 AM. Reason: type... 'apples' instead of 'applies' lol
You gotta remember though, that these 60 and 70 year olds grew up in the days before mass brainwashing and liberal propoganda in the education system. I'm 19, but I'm much more likely to have the same set of opinions on life and socity as a 70 year old than I am a 19 year old. |
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The oldest man I have ever talked to gave me his wisdom one night in a pub. 'Don't be afraid to do things in life that you are afraid to do, just do it. Keep enough money back for life's inevitable emergencies. And lastly, try to have sex with as many women as you can.......' |
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