Because America was founded by puritanical fundies and that influence is still strong bro. |
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Apparently, unfortunately, we need to talk more about sex. |
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Because America was founded by puritanical fundies and that influence is still strong bro. |
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Are you really saying that sexual taboo is endemic to America? |
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I can only speak for Amercia as it's the only place I've lived - I know it exists elsewhere too, but then where do you think the puritans came from in the first place? |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 03-05-2013 at 01:10 AM.
Does anyone agree with a more prudish viewpoint of sex? Is there any who thinks it's even remotely healthy to make sex taboo? |
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But as I just said, sex isn't taboo - media is supersaturated with it. It's only nudity that's taboo, and that only in mainstream media. It's just moved to the countless billions of internet pron sites. Which of course isn't exactly a healthy depiction of sex either - so in a sense you're right - even though the new expanded media (including internet pron etc) does include every type of 'extreme' sex and violence imaginable there's very little responsible and healthy depictions of either. |
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I'm concerned with the law, which dictates what the mainstream media is allowed to show. The FCC doesn't fine Walking Dead for it's gore and violence, but they would have been fined if they didn't cut away from the breast shot. Likewise, nudity requires an 18+ content warning and even if you are over 18, you stand to be fired from your job for NSFW content, even if it's nudity for a different sake than to cause arousal, which is essentially what porn is. But not all nudity is porn. |
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Oh well that one's easy - the government has to strictly control all expressions of sexuality in order to establish the coming totalitarian regime. As for DV - who knows, maybe they're gearing up to do the same? |
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Isn't sex and nudity a medium taboo in most cultures..? |
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The thread title (and zine title of the same name) is facetious. The vast majority of my poetry is written while sober but I often have to go through a certain amount of senselessness to get ink on the paper. I don't expect everyone to fall in love with it, but you have to make the bad art before you can make the good art. The cunnilingus one is hardly senseless though. It's mostly just vulgar, which is why the staff decided it's not art, I guess. But I depict sex tastelessly, not to propagate porn or be offensive but simply because I think human beings are disgusting animals and the drive to portray sex and bodies as beautiful is... well, the same losing battle as advocating the reason in the face of the absurd. |
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DV is not totalitarian about sex and such! It is actually really liberating after the online forum I came from. People don't you realize how free speach and liberating this forum is? <\rant mode> |
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I was KIDDING!!! (Didn't you see the ??) |
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Oops, I guess the problem was not whether you were kidding or not, the problem is that I still expect a nasty gram from a moderator telling me that I am unworthy of being a human being let alone a member of this forum because I used the word "poop" or "fight" - sorry, still getting used to the free Speach here. I feel a bit like a first time lucid dreamer on dream views: a bit disbelieving, figuring that this is too good to be just a dream, and that any time now reality will arrest me for traspassing. |
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Last edited by JoannaB; 03-05-2013 at 02:06 AM.
Yeah it's certainly not totalitarian, though I love giving the mods shit for even the slightest hint of a power-trip (one must remain ever vigilant). What's really getting at me is how quick people are to say something is pornography and not art. Art and porn appear to be mutually exclusive, and the distinction is helpful. Regarding the music industry, it's safe to admit Justin Bieber, et al is pornography in that it's tasteless. |
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I think one persons porn can be another persons art, and vice versa. But on both sides of the spectrum there will be fanatics who insist that this is art or porn, and that anybody disagreeing with them is tasteless, shameless, base, and stupid. Also what is so wrong with porn anyway, enquiring minds want to know. No, not all of it is art, and not all of it appeals to the intellect like at all, but neither does football which is about overweight man using a ball as an excuse to beat the crap out of each other - and nobody claims that is art or intellectual, but nobody finds it objectionable either. |
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Last edited by JoannaB; 03-05-2013 at 02:37 AM.
Paint a nude, and it's art. Photograph that same person, and it's porn. |
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Last edited by Auron; 03-05-2013 at 03:13 AM.
What you're talking about is ANCIENT, seriously seriously ancient. |
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There is something about rape, rape and murder and especially human trafficking, that just mortifies me. I can stomach murder in a movie but once you add rape..... |
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Would you watch porn and/or nudity with your family? Could you imagine what kind of family would want to watch porn and/or nudity together? |
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Porn =/= nudity. I see nothing wrong with my imaginary children seeing a naked body. As far as porn is concerned, I'd prefer they were exposed to porn before they were exposed to Modern Warfare. But that's just me, and I'm not really opposed to violence either, but consider what you just said. How many depictions of violence are considered good family fun while a pair of breasts would suddenly make it inappropriate? |
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Yeah, I think other factors play a roll into how everything is viewed. The other question is when will society get over it? Not rape or murder, but consensual sex. There are so many constituents that will always make it a bigger deal than it actually is. Lets face it.....once the internet came about, EVERYONE had access to porn, and if anything more laws have been added against acts of sexuality. I find it hard to believe that there some scientific research that proves a 17 year old isn't ready for sex, and is considered raped if they engage in intercourse with someone older than them, but they can enlist in the military, and buy NC-17 movies. |
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Exactly, why is it a 17 year old is raped if they have an 18 year old partner but they can legally murder someone? |
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You're right, neither of those are appropriate for good family fun. I am not a father, but I can tell from most parents that they would rather their kids see death than sex. It's just a much bigger worry for a parent to worry about if their 12 year old daughter is talking about sex or blow jobs than if she was talking about a pirate dying in pirates of the Caribbean or something. Of course on the other extreme you should educate your kids about sex but at the same time you don't want it to be everywhere, like it seems to already be doing in the mainstream media. |
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Last edited by Shrek; 03-05-2013 at 04:38 AM.
Interesting linkage of decades - the hippie revolution of the 60's was a reaction against the hypocritical conservative prohibitions of the 50's. Obviously neither prohibitive restrictions or decadent oversaturation of sexualized/violent imagery/ideas are good for a society. But once the society tips over that line of decadence you tend to get both. |
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My concern is not my ability to see what I want so much as my ability to publish what I want. But I'll get back to that later. Right now the mainstream media is sexualized, but sex itself remains pretty taboo. It's all revealed through innuendo. And music videos are allowed to arouse and confuse the fuck out of kids without actually being pornographic. That doesn't seem healthy to me, either. Death certainly comes before sex, but there are plenty of ways to explain death to a child that is not violent, such as the death of a pet or a grandparent. Violent death is a different story, because we as a society are desensitized to violence. I'm not saying violent imagery should be banned, of course, I'm simply saying it's a lot less healthy to become desensitized to violence as it is sex and nudity. MTV does not actually desensitize kids to sex, anyways. It arouses them but keeps it just taboo enough to remain arousing through seeming dirty and forbidden. And it becomes a forbidden fruit. |
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