watch gay porn when you get the urge. dudes if you're straight, chicks if you're gay. I get pretty turned off watching lesbians go at it. sometimes ill. |
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Masturbating. I feel like it's getting a little out of hand. I've tried to stop before, and it's extremely difficult. It feels almost like an addiction, to be honest. I'm really tired of having it (or other things sexual in nature) on my mind all the time. Anybody have any advice pertaining to the topic? |
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watch gay porn when you get the urge. dudes if you're straight, chicks if you're gay. I get pretty turned off watching lesbians go at it. sometimes ill. |
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Ignorant bliss is an oxymoron; but so is miserable truth.
i don't have this problem, but i have wondered a bit about control of your sexual nature. repression makes it worse, but reinforcing it doesn't work either. i can feel in control of myself for a while, then i find myself walking behind a girl, staring at her ass and getting lost. |
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But that's the thing; if possible, I'd like to get to a point where I don't really care to do anything sexual unless the situation were to present itself. |
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sure, but sexual tension can build up, right? the question is how to manage it. hopefully more people will post because i think this is kind of an interesting subject. |
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Go every other day for a week, every three days for a week, then stop. |
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if you can read this then you are about to be punched
How many times a day do you masturbate? |
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Once you pass 5 days you should be good. In my case at least |
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if you can read this then you are about to be punched
Masturbating twice a day is not so frequent. |
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You merely have to change your point of view slightly, and then that glass will sparkle when it reflects the light.
I recently had this problem. I cut down to masturbating only three times a week, and then I just quit altogether, and I have been going strong for about 10 days, and honestly, I feel amazing. I feel so refreshed, and I just generally am in a better mood. I highly suggest you go for it. |
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Well here is the important question you need to ask yourself. Are you masturbating because you need to, or because you are bored? This works for people who are overweight too. You eat because you feel the need, or because you are bored? |
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I can only second that. Or else get a gf. I personally think watching gay porn, googleing genital diseases or thinking of your grandma won't get you anywhere since you can simply chose not to. If it's porn that is leading to anything download the free version of this: http://www1.k9webprotection.com/ and type in a password with your eyes closed. That way if the urge ever gets too strong, you won't be able to even if you wanted. |
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Looking up gay porn and bad stuff is probably a bad idea. Since you are going to relate being aroused to that sort of stuff. Which either means you are going to start enjoying it, or you will no longer be able to get aroused at all. |
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Yeah I was thinking about that. Like Pavlov's dog associates hearing a bell ring with food. I guess you simply have to be confident of your sexuality then. I for one know that it will never happen to me. Or else just find something that is guaranteed to turn you off like puppies dying or something. |
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I'm glad you're doing so well, and hearing about it's definitely motivation for me |
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And I see your guys' point, but, for one, I don't believe you can really 'train' yourself to be attracted to the same sex (not to start a heated debate on the topic or anything). |
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Personally, I think if you watch enough straight porn the same thing happens. Since there are men and woman in straight porn and you are exposed to both. However there is a big difference to having a preference and then subtly reinforcing it by doing the stuff you like. And doing something you out right hate, and reinforcing that with pleasure. |
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Yes, I think its possible. Though there are women too, so you would still be attracted to women. It would probably be such a gradual thing you would never even notice though. |
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I'm guessing you don't have a girlfriend? They can help with this kind of stuff... |
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