I need help with some dreams that i've been experiencing!!

**Johnny19** · 01-21-2012 03:46 AM

Hello everyone i've been dreaming alot about an old (girl) friend its really confusing i dont know why i dream about her so many times. We were good friends but we dont talk for 3 years , in my dreams we are always talking to eachother but sometimes i dream about her saying she loves me its weird because i never had feelings for her and i think the same goes for her but i dont know what is happening with me so i ask you please help me out!.

Thanks everyone

**wana** · 01-22-2012 03:10 AM

all i can say is your subconscious is talking to you maybe you had good times with her , and your brain is remembering those times

**sinoblak** · 01-22-2012 10:44 AM

Originally Posted by wana

all i can say is your subconscious is talking to you maybe you had good times with her , and your brain is remembering those times

I agree with it.
Sometimes it's hard to realize that people appearing in our dreams are only DCs and not the actual human beings we know IRL. Our subconscious uses those DCs in different ways and for different purposes.

**TheSkies** · 01-24-2012 07:53 PM

Have you met anybody recently that reminds you of this friend? Or have you recently had a change in friends? It could be that it is not a simple this such as you miss her (which is obviously plausible), but it could be that another event is causing her to appear in these dreams. I'm not a psychologist, but dreams are not always simple to interpret. And sinoblak is right, you must remember that any appearance of people you know is only a (and I know this is an 'inception' word) projection of how you perceive that person. If you know/knew them well, then your experience talking to them may be very similar to the real yet hypothetical situation.

**Johnny19** · 01-25-2012 12:58 AM

Originally Posted by TheSkies

Have you met anybody recently that reminds you of this friend? Or have you recently had a change in friends? It could be that it is not a simple this such as you miss her (which is obviously plausible), but it could be that another event is causing her to appear in these dreams. I'm not a psychologist, but dreams are not always simple to interpret. And sinoblak is right, you must remember that any appearance of people you know is only a (and I know this is an 'inception' word) projection of how you perceive that person. If you know/knew them well, then your experience talking to them may be very similar to the real yet hypothetical situation.

Nobody reminds me of her and i havent changed my friends....she's just there talking to me i remember her smile and it makes me feel good i dont know why. I think i dream about her because there was something missing in our friendship something that i should have fixed. This is happening to me for along time i'll try to talk to her maybe it will stop.

Thanks for the help.