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      Dream of cuddling with long time friend / friend's wife

      Hey, so I have a girlfriend but I live with a married couple. The couple have been friends of mine for about 10 years and I'm close with them.
      So,I just had a dream last night where I found myself cuddling with my friend Jamie who is my friend's wife. We were just laying on the floor with some blankets and pillows, cuddling and watching the news. (I later realized the news part was because I had fallen asleep with the tv on the news channel).
      Like dreams sometimes do, at some point her wardrobe changed from being in comfortable clothes to being in underwear or a bikini, and somehow her breast slipped out of her bra. She said something like "Oh, don't worry about that." but nothing sexual ended up happening.

      Like I said, I've been friends with this girl for years, since before she was dating her husband, and I've always found her attractive, but there hasn't really ever been any flirtation. Occasionally if we're at a party and she's a little tipsy she might try to dance with me.. very close. But nothing ever happens. We mostly just have a close friendship and sometimes late at night we'll just sit and talk about things, how each other's day was, etc.

      What does this mean? I know I probably shouldn't act on it but its fun to think about.

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      I think that it's just very suppressed desires manifesting and taking form in a dream. Which is extremely normal. However, It's up you to decide how you feel about them, or how you should act on them.

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      I just wrote a long reply and I guess I clicked the wrong thing because it disappeared. So, here's the short version.
      Yes, there probably are some suppressed feelings. I think there was a chance years ago where she wanted to date me and I kinda didn't realize it or didn't have the confidence to act on it. I know I can't act now. She's married and I respect that. I am also content in my own relationship.

      So, I think your explanation is probably accurate. I've also seen other responses to similar questions. One is that I should ignore this completely, because it doesn't mean a thing. Just my mind making up stories.
      I've also heard that when one has these kinds of dreams, it doesn't matter who the girl is... that she is just a symbol representing the "female icon" in the dream. Meaning I just need female attention or intimacy, but not necessarily from her.

      This dream was unique. We all have sexual dreams from time to time, but in such a dream I rarely dream about someone I know. It was also unique because it was such a close, intimate dream yet stopped short of being truly sexual.

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