Of course it's possible. Whether it's desirable, that's another question... |
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I have been dreaming about this girl for more than a month now. I can't remember the exact number of times, but it's has been about 10+ times. |
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Last edited by asdzxc10; 05-27-2015 at 07:13 PM.
Of course it's possible. Whether it's desirable, that's another question... |
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Current projects:
-Acquire the Aurora
-Test galatamine, huperzine and choline
-Find smartwatch app for RC reminders at certain intervals
-Ressurect my dream log here, and become more active
Not to try ruin your positive mindset, but it's probably a result of self deception. You're only weighing the positives, making her look like a dream girl (haha). At the very least consider taking action in real life if at all possible. |
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Yes, I've already reconnect with her not long after the first dream i had via text. Most of the times she seems interested and response immediately no matter what she's doing, but there's also times where she show little interest in talking to me. I'm receiving mixed signals and I'm confused. What even worse is we're no longer in the same country. I am not sure whether or not I should tell her my feeling. For me, I really want to tell her and find out the answer, so I can get on with my life. |
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I understand your experience, I haven't lived it that strong, but something similar happens to me. |
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I would not worried this much or feel pain if this was just a random girl and not a girl I used to like and she has also liked me before. I can't really enjoy this emotion as I really want to meet her and tell her my feeling and see what happen, then move on with my life I'm stuck right now. But there's one problem that prevent me from doing it, it's because we're no longer in the same country, if she still have the feeling for me, I'm not sure I could pull off a successful long distance relationship. |
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Well, regarding what refers to dreams, I think is not so rare falling in love with someone you dream about usually, more if you've already been in love with that person before. |
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I've had this sort of experience before, even with people I never had any desire to be with. The feelings, at least for me, doesn't last. They usually go away after a week or two. But, I've also never made any attempt to be with the people I dream about. |
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I want to put my 2 cents here. |
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I envy you, dreaming about a girl you know and has responded positively. You never know. As Blizzard said, she could be your soulmate. I've fallen in love with a girl I see in a persistent dream world. Someone I haven't met in the waking life.... |
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I wouldn't say it's bad, since I make friends with people in my dreams all the time, so I'm sure it's possible to go further, buuuuut... I would say since she's based on a real-life person, definitely keep in mind that the woman you're seeing in your dreams most likely isn't the same woman you like in real life, personality-wise. You're seeing an idealized version of her, and the worst thing you can do is assume she's going to be exactly how you dream she'll be. You'll get your hopes too high and put her on a pedestal, and if you wind up in a real relationship with her she might pick up on that and get upset. |
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There's a movie about your exact situation man its called The Good Night |
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