Recurring dreams confusing me

Hey,

So, i'm 19, in college, meeting and fooling around with girls and i met this girl through a friend. We went on a date, hit it off, a lot of common ground and attraction and it was all fine. She even invited herself to my drum practice that was a couple of days away. Later she disappeared for what turned into a month now, even though i called her for another date twice, with her failing to pick up the phone both times. The friend told me she talked to her and that she's going through a really rough patch with her parents divorcing, trying to loose weight, college... so i let it go.

But recently, out of nowhere, a few nights in a row now, i'm dreaming of getting messages from her where she apologizes over and over for vanishing and wants to see me again. Last night it was so vivid that i was convinced it was real until i somehow realized i was sleeping, got pissed off and woke up in the middle of the night.
I'm also bombarded by other random texts that i can't remember. That's coupled with waking up in the middle of the night 4 times in a row now, right after the messages.

I also had a nightmare (after going years without having one) where i fooled around with and kissed a girl from my class at a party, after which her giant boyfriend came over to beat me up (i surrendered without a fight, just accepting it but nothing happened), my parents kicked me out of the house and i got stuck having her pregnant with everyone leaving me. I woke up upset and confused and it died down soon.

Any help would be appreciated

Thanks in advance.