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      Sex in Dreams

      There seems to be a lot of it!

      A very high proportion of my dreams have some sort of sexual contact with another person.

      In my experience, it seems to be quite different from sex in real life. Firstly, it seems to happen very easily and casually, often almost within seconds of meeting the other person (always a woman, or at least a female, in my case). It doesn't seem to be associated with any taboo, it often takes place in public, with other people wandering around, not paying much attention. I don't think I've EVER recalled a dream that actually involved penetration. It often feels more like some sort of exchange of sexual energy, usually holding each other, but sometimes not even touching. It often involves being hyper-aware of the partner's response, actually FEELING her response, sharing in it. It often involves a near orgasm, but never an ejaculation.

      Quite interesting. I know a woman who is a tantra teacher, and I've heard her talk about it, although I've never followed her classes or courses. It actually sounds like a lot of the things that I just mentioned above are part of tantric sexual practices.

      I wonder if my experiences of sex in dreams are similar to other peoples? Are all those things typical of sex in dreams? Or does it vary a lot between individuals?

      PS. I don't think LaBerge ever talks much about sex in dreams. If he does, I missed it. I guess dealing with sexual dysfunction might be another application for lucid dreaming, and an interesting one. Well, not just dysfunction. For exploring sexuality.

      PPS. Hmm. I can think of one time a taboo came up. I mentioned my first lucid dream a couple of days ago. I had a sexual encounter with a girl who was probably 15 or 16. And it did briefly occur to me that I needed to think about that. And then I remembered ... It's a dream. I don't ever particularly feel attracted to very young women in real life. In my fifties, I tend to regard 30 as the age of consent.
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      Hi wanderabout, Im a 35 yr old male. There is often a element of attraction/ sex in my dreams. In one of my most recent dreams a female dc was going around to all the men and was pulling there trouser tight to see who had the nicest bum, in another dream I hear female dcs making comment about my physique. In Some dreams i have penetrative sex with female dcs and occasionally even my wife - which is a welcome change.

      Like you said these encounters often feel very casual and totally acceptable behaviour regardless of location.

      I have a dream sign I call the woman red her physical appearance( skin colour, nationality, hair colour) changes every time I see her but shes always dressed in a red dress and heels. when I see her there is an immensely palpable mutual attraction.
      I summoned her once when I was lucid to ask who she was and what she represented but we just ended getting straight down to the goodies, when I realised what was happening I tried to ask her my questions but we was in mid flow and I got no response.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Ant101 View Post
      I have a dream sign I call the woman red her physical appearance( skin colour, nationality, hair colour) changes every time I see her but she’s always dressed in a red dress and heels. when I see her there is an immensely palpable mutual attraction.
      I summoned her once when I was lucid to ask who she was and what she represented but we just ended getting straight down to the goodies, when I realised what was happening I tried to ask her my questions but we was in mid flow and I got no response.
      Ah! Very interesting. I haven't been focusing on dreams for long enough to identify dream signs or to have recurrent meetings with the same person in different manifestations. Something to watch out for!

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      Back when I was younger (and more active on this site) I would have non stop sex dreams, I'm talking like as soon as I get lucid I'm conjuring an attractive girl to show up around the next corner. I made a similar post years ago and it seems like a lot of people have the same thing going on, a lot of sexual dreams that seem to overpopulate the dreams we remember or the dreams we go lucid in. I will say that I kind of understand the idea of sex being less about penetration and more the energy whilst in a dream because I know that a lot of my sex dreams end up being distorted in one way or another. It felt common for sex to become some weird abstraction, for example I remember having sex with a girl and she became a literal life sized doll plush doll that you would see small children play with or another time a girl grew tentacles mid coitus. For me at least normal sex seemed to be pretty dam rare for my dreams but it seemed like I always had some weird sex shit going on.
      "I thought I was only acting but I felt exactly like it was all for real."

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