Thread: Sex in Dreams

Hi wanderabout, I’m a 35 yr old male. There is often a element of attraction/ sex in my dreams. In one of my most recent dreams a female dc was going around to all the men and was pulling there trouser tight to see who had the nicest bum, in another dream I hear female dcs making comment about my physique. In Some dreams i have penetrative sex with female dcs and occasionally even my wife - which is a welcome change.

Like you said these encounters often feel very casual and totally acceptable behaviour regardless of location.

I have a dream sign I call the woman red her physical appearance( skin colour, nationality, hair colour) changes every time I see her but she’s always dressed in a red dress and heels. when I see her there is an immensely palpable mutual attraction.
I summoned her once when I was lucid to ask who she was and what she represented but we just ended getting straight down to the goodies, when I realised what was happening I tried to ask her my questions but we was in mid flow and I got no response.

Originally Posted by Ant101

I have a dream sign I call the woman red her physical appearance( skin colour, nationality, hair colour) changes every time I see her but she’s always dressed in a red dress and heels. when I see her there is an immensely palpable mutual attraction.
I summoned her once when I was lucid to ask who she was and what she represented but we just ended getting straight down to the goodies, when I realised what was happening I tried to ask her my questions but we was in mid flow and I got no response.

Ah! Very interesting. I haven't been focusing on dreams for long enough to identify dream signs or to have recurrent meetings with the same person in different manifestations. Something to watch out for!

Back when I was younger (and more active on this site) I would have non stop sex dreams, I'm talking like as soon as I get lucid I'm conjuring an attractive girl to show up around the next corner. I made a similar post years ago and it seems like a lot of people have the same thing going on, a lot of sexual dreams that seem to overpopulate the dreams we remember or the dreams we go lucid in. I will say that I kind of understand the idea of sex being less about penetration and more the energy whilst in a dream because I know that a lot of my sex dreams end up being distorted in one way or another. It felt common for sex to become some weird abstraction, for example I remember having sex with a girl and she became a literal life sized doll plush doll that you would see small children play with or another time a girl grew tentacles mid coitus. For me at least normal sex seemed to be pretty dam rare for my dreams but it seemed like I always had some weird sex shit going on.