Family worship & Black Cat

Hi there :) , I had 2 pretty wierd dreams last night, but it seemed to have a few symbols in it. Here's a bit about myself before I launch into the dream. I am 24, chinese, and in the last year of my degree with a very promising career ahead of me. I am hoping to work in another country after I grad. I have recently started a long-term relationship with a man that has quite a ways to go in terms of his life and career. He is 26, he is very caring and likes to spend a lot of time with me but he knows that I sometimes may not be able to provide the attention. He's had a tough life (parents divorced and genetic health issues plus bad adolescent experiences. I am sometimes unsure of whether or not I want to continue our relationship (it's only been 2 months). To me, success and ambition is mainly driven by the want to be able to provide for my parents when they grow old and be able to take care of myself and my future family. There are some things about my boyfriend that do not sit on the same wavelength as mine yet (ie. family, friends, social life, etc.) but we like the time we have to ourselves. I am looking to settle down and start a family in the next 5 years but I don't know if my bf has the same views. However, he is very devoted and loyal to me. Ok, so here is my first dream:


My family and I are standing in a dark room (maybe kitchen) of my house. My dad is talking to this warrior-like man with a moustache in a very serious and confidential conversation. This man seems to have a lot of power. :evil:He then gets into this shelf in the kitchen and sits cross-legged in it like some imp or god. :bowdown:We light incense in silence and pray/worship to him before my family and I sit at the dinner table for dinner. There is a sense of fear all along, afraid that we will dissatisfy the warrior-guy in the shelf and fear for our life. He asks if my brother is at the table too, and we nod in silence (my brother is not actually there because he is running late). On the table, there is only plain rice on a plate plus some soy sauce. There are only a few candles and incense for us to see. We eat whatever is in front of us so as not to be opinionated about what we have to eat in front of the warrior-guy.:lipssealed:


Ok, here is dream 2:

I am walking along a sidewalk along my neighbourhood on a sunny day :cooler:and see a girl I recognize handing out candy for halloween. I realize I have to tell her something so I join the line-up for candy. I talk to her and leave with some candy. I see that there is a large pond next to her house, the pond is very clear and clean with very green grass around it:rainbow:. Her black cat is at the edge of the pond trying to catch fish with her paws. He tries to eat the fish he has caught but he puts more than he could swallow so the fish jump out of his mouth back into the pond. He starts to catch a really big fish and almost glides across the water to snatch the big fish (very vivid crisp nice colors). Then the pond and cat disappears and I am near an indoor pool and a little boy of about 5 years old comes up to me (away from his dad) because his glasses are fogged up and wanted me to wipe them. I wipe them up for him. He was very very cute and adorable. I lead him around the facility and played with him a bit. He then needed to use the washroom. I lead him into this room that looked like a huge ensuite of some sort and found the toilet for him and closed the door for him.

That's it. Any idea what this all might mean?? Thank you so so much for reading!! Any feedback is greatly appreciated!:sunflower: