Someone in my dreams feels so real, but nobody else does.

Alright this is my first post on here, and really my first time asking for people's opinions on my dreams!

First off, I’ve never really had a dream where everything in it felt like it was actually happening, the only time I can remember was when I had a flying dream, but those are common! And I could just feel that feeling in my stomach when I was flying, nothing else. I've read time and time again where people say that their dreams were SO real. I've never had that, although I HAVE had dreams where only one person felt real and i guess you could say solid, but nothing else.

Anyways, I dream of this person about 2/3 times a week. He is a real person and I know exactly who he is. He's in a band that I’ve liked for ages, he is famous in his country (England), but nowhere else, so I don't have to worry! Ha. I had the chance to meet him a year ago and it was amazing, and I think he may have felt something too. And after that I feel even stronger for him, if that's possible. But lately, these passed 3/4 months I’ve been having very real dreams about him. If he's in my dream he is the ONLY person I can feel. I can feel his every hug, touch, and kiss, etc. It’s SO real. I get butterflies every time I’m around him, I can physically feel my stomach going crazy whenever he’s in my dream. Now my question is why is it only HIM that feels real? Nobody else? I’ve liked tons of guys before, quite strongly I might add, and they didn't feel real whenever I’ve dreamt about them. Even the situation, I guess I “know” I’m dreaming (well when I wake up), but then whenever he pops up in the dream he’s real while everyone else is just… there, I can’t feel them or anything even when we interact (if that makes sense? Like let's say they were to put their hand on the small of my back, I can't feel it, I can see them doing it, I just can't feel it. But if HE were to put his hand on the small of my back, I can feel it). So this just confuses me greatly. Obviously there are no logical answers to this, I’m just wondering what people can possibly think! And if anyone’s wondering I do plan on seeing him again, I plan on studying abroad there part time and then may be getting a job with their tour manager in the coming year so I would be with him quite a lot! Not sure if it will happen but it’s in the works!
Thanks for any input!

well, interperating this dream, i would say that this is just because you are crazy about this guy, so you concentrate on him more. i had the same thing with a girl in a dream.

however, it might be more than that, it may have been a shared dream, if you believe in that kind of thing, apparently you can sense other peoples energy if it is a shared dream.

or it may have been your dream guide.

Well, how do you define real? For myself, when I dream I am convinced that nothing is out of the ordinary. I just don't think to question what's going on. When I talk to DCs or go to different locations, it feels unremarkable but natural. I hardly ever remember what they say or what they looked like or the reason why I went wherever or did whatever.

However, I've had some fairly realistic dreams where I am emotionaly involved in whatever situation is taking place. I've had a couple of lucid dreams that have felt "more real than reality" in the sense that everything is so much more vibrant and visible and tangible than they are in the real world. I can see things more clearly, colors are brighter, and so on and so forth. It's quite enjoyable to say the least!

It's possible that you're simply not emotionally involved or there's nothing overly remarkable about your dreams except for this one particular guy. I have gone through periods of time where nothing in my dreams seems worth remembering, so it's possible that your dreams might just be going through a phase. Perhaps you're simply placing an emphasis on this person when you're awake (especially if you're enamored with him), which is causing him to appear more often. A number of people have recurring dream characters and I bet you would find more information under the Dream Signs and Recall forum.

you like him a lot so your subconsciousness devotes more 'resources' to his realism. that simple. Perhaps he also just about feels like the only real thing in waking life as well?