Recurrent dreams about swans..help me interpret

The first time I had this dream was in the autumn of 2006. I still have not met the father of my child and didn't have a steady relationship at the time. In my dream I entered a nice garden of a beautiful house. There was a lake in front of the house which I wanted to see. the lake was small, artificial, looking well. There were two swans swimming upon it. The view was beautiful. After I made my way away from the garden because I didn't want to meet the owners of the house. On my way out I saw the owners had a fox and a donkey as pet animals. I thought this was curious. Almost at the door, the owner of the house appeared. I felt very embarrassed but he insisted that I join him and his friends at the dinner table (obviously early dinner since it was still daylight). Then I saw a long table in the garden many people sitting at it. When I sat at the table I felt right. I knew I knew these people from before and they were friends. My dream was over.
The second time I had that dream it was half a year later. What I remember of the dream was a large natural lake full of swans. As the weather turned suddenly very bad - dark clouds, lightening and strong wind. The birds started to fly away to escape the storm. Then I saw they were incredibly almost gigantic birds. In my dream I felt scared and worried from the storm. I do not remember being worried for or by the swans.
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Soon after that I met the father of my child, we felt in and out of love. While making our daughter we spend a particularly nice day at a lake with three swans - mother, baby and father. Soon after our relations got worse and we separated. Some time after my daughter was born I had the third dream.

I was watching a big natural lake. There were many swans. Couples with their babies. I felt good watching them. It felt right. The only thing that puzzled me was on pink flamingo standing out in the crowd. It was simpatico but didn't fit in.

I thought I need to make these dream more clear to myself since a couple of days ago my almost 2 years old daughter saw a marry-go-round with swans. there were there couples on it fathers with daughters. When she saw them she started crying and wanted to get off. This is the first time she asked about her father: saying almost a hundred times: swans, daddy?

The first thing you have to realize is that life is beautiful, no matter what our circumstances we all are perfect in whatever may happen to us. This should help for somepart of the dream. In dreams we get help from our own minds, and in some cases the divine. All of the things in our dreams are significant, and only you are the one who can interpret your own dream, but here is some helpful advice so that you find things to be a lot easier. In dreams the things that signify good are the things that make us happy, like you said the swans. Swans are a good sign, and so are the garden and the lake. Now, it is up to you to read the meaning of these things in the dream, but before you start to think the storm is bad, let me explain a nightmare. A nightmare is like a dream, but it is blatantly obvious that it is not a dream because in nightmares EVERYTHING is bad, but (the good news) that doesnt seem to be the situation. You said that the lake at first seemed artificial, well for our minds to change something like that is to change it, but so not to shock you show you something intimidating, but something we are used to like a storm. Now, you said the swans seemed to be a lot larger then you thought, that usually means that that one thing is more significant in the dream then anything else. Another bit of good news is that you said at the dinner table you felt happy, strong emotion in any part of a dream is rare, and also largly significant. Well I hope that helps, it should give you some comfortable insight on your dream, and have fun interpreting. :)

Satan, thank you so much for the tips. Wish you Happy 2010! You gave me a new perspective - 10x!