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Ok, so I have a massive crush on a celebrity.
Naturally, I thought I might try to use lucid dreams to be with them. :shadewink:
However, I'm a bit concerned that I might start to think I have an actual relationship with them, when obviously I don't! And then I might start thinking they're better than people in real life....
I just worry about these things. Maybe too much. Anyone got any advice?
Go out and meet some real people, I am not trying to be a d-bag. A real girl/boyfriend in awaking life seems better than a dream girl/boyfriend. Maybe I have not experienced LD enough but I am more than sure a real relationship is the way to go.
Well a bit of logic should stop your madness. If it doesnt, then I just have to say that you have to be emotionally strong enough for Lucid Dreaming.
Why are you concerned about this? Are you predisposition to schizophrenia or something? Even if you are, I don't foresee lucid dreaming triggering it.
I don't think it'll happen. And trust me when I say this - I'm going through the exact same thing. x3
I tend to obsess over people, so I was a bit concerned lucids would fuel my obsession ><
The only thing I can say is to have some self-control, I know it is hard, but it is not impossible.Quote:
Originally Posted by concordeloverx
Don't worry your dreaming logic and real life logic are completely separate.
dude find yourslef a girl, you will find that real life "can" be better. it is unhealthy to let this get to far.
or a dude rather