Sexual Reperucussions in LD

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03-15-2011, 12:42 AM
jaydub114

Sexual Reperucussions in LD

First thread and I just want to say thanks for reading it and I appreciate this kind of community.

I've had a handful of lucid dreams and they all ended similar to other peoples' beginning experiences--I get lucid and seek out sex right away then I spin out of control. That's happened about four times.

The latest LD I had i was playing taps (it's like catch but with jumping) with a random guy and a female friend of mine, but she had the appearance of one of my favorite porn stars. I became lucid at some point and then dropped the game. I pretty much took my female friend in a head lock and tried to molest her. I did that for a second or two and then i became paralyzed in the same i was when i grabbed her. I know the paralysis is normal, but the sense i got from the reaction was that it was punishment. It was a sure feeling. I felt like I got punished for my sex drive and actions and therefore put into submission.

Background info. I jerked off right before my dream so you would think my drive would be leveled.

My question is do you think that it's possible that I was reprimanded for my urges in lucid dreams?

I've had sleep paralysis a number times and used it effectively (i'm still searching for my own truth between astral projection and lucid dreams), but never experienced it in this way.

I don't condone what I did, my urges were just that strong and forced me to force it on her.
03-15-2011, 12:49 AM
gugula3

I Can't relate to the paralisys in sex thing because when i go lucid first thing i usually do is fly or shoot flames out of my hands and yeah maybe sex but never putting a female into submission rather by controlling her (making her act horny) thru my control over the lucid dream and have sex never submission. Closest ive gone to that is just pull down some random hot girl dc's pantys and fuck her doggy style but she just followed thru with me like completely normal.
03-15-2011, 03:21 AM
Rawracookie

Gugula3's avi suffers from deflective perspective.

Perhaps you thought "wait, this is wrong. I shouldn't force myself on another person like this! Criminals do this and criminals should be punished, so I should..." Obviously not as up front as that, but you could have felt it subconsciously. How does one punish he who has total control in a dream? Obviously, you take away that control, thus paralyzation.

Why wouldn't gugula suffer such a fate? Because he used dream control to make the dream character willing before the act.

I guess, if you want to "rape" a dream character, remember that they are worth no more than any other object. They are merely part of the landscape. And you must know this on a deep level in order to expect no repercussions.
03-15-2011, 03:28 AM
jaydub114

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Originally Posted by Rawracookie

Gugula3's avi suffers from deflective perspective.

Perhaps you thought "wait, this is wrong. I shouldn't force myself on another person like this! Criminals do this and criminals should be punished, so I should..." Obviously not as up front as that, but you could have felt it subconsciously. How does one punish he who has total control in a dream? Obviously, you take away that control, thus paralyzation.

Why wouldn't gugula suffer such a fate? Because he used dream control to make the dream character willing before the act.

I guess, if you want to "rape" a dream character, remember that they are worth no more than any other object. They are merely part of the landscape. And you must know this on a deep level in order to expect no repercussions.

That's an interesting way of looking it, thanks for the feedback.

Oh and I don't want to rape a dream character. Sex sure, rape no.
03-15-2011, 04:30 AM
Rawracookie

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Originally Posted by jaydub114

That's an interesting way of looking it, thanks for the feedback.

Oh and I don't want to rape a dream character. Sex sure, rape no.

That's why I think paralysis was involved. You didn't really believe in what you were doing.
03-15-2011, 10:20 AM
KurtDetterman

a headlock? seriously? thats just too funny

edit: I'm not judging you by the way, its just a bizarre thing to do
03-15-2011, 07:49 PM
jaydub114

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Originally Posted by KurtDetterman

a headlock? seriously? thats just too funny

edit: I'm not judging you by the way, its just a bizarre thing to do

no worries, I smh whenever i think about it.

Great news though, i just had an LD last night and no headlocks just flying.
03-16-2011, 03:50 AM
Rawracookie

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Originally Posted by jaydub114

no worries, I smh whenever i think about it.

Great news though, i just had an LD last night and no headlocks just flying.

Great job! As you become more experienced, I'm sure you'll have all of the sexual experiences you desire.
03-16-2011, 04:03 AM
gugula3

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rawracookie

Gugula3's avi suffers from deflective perspective.

Perhaps you thought "wait, this is wrong. I shouldn't force myself on another person like this! Criminals do this and criminals should be punished, so I should..." Obviously not as up front as that, but you could have felt it subconsciously. How does one punish he who has total control in a dream? Obviously, you take away that control, thus paralyzation.

Why wouldn't gugula suffer such a fate? Because he used dream control to make the dream character willing before the act.

I guess, if you want to "rape" a dream character, remember that they are worth no more than any other object. They are merely part of the landscape. And you must know this on a deep level in order to expect no repercussions.

Yeah remember that they are senseless decorations and u dont even have to force them. I make em horny cuz that way its more pleasing and interesting like also getting a bj and all and changing positions :)
03-16-2011, 07:59 AM
concusion

It's all about frame of mind, and conquering changing your thought process that, this is not real, I can break the laws of nature, I can do whatever I want. But think like this... you don't need to molest her or take her against her will. Just expect that she is thinking the same thing as you. What I usually do is approach the woman in a confident manner, like we know each other, and I grab her hand to lead her away and she follows, and it is usually fool proof for me anyway. It wasn't always that easy of course. Now if I can only master that mind set with flying.
03-17-2011, 08:16 AM
LikesToTrip

I've had similar experiences when I've forced myself on DCs sexually. In a few lucids I would be horny so I'd find a girl and pick her up to take her to a bed. But when I'd get to the bed she would be gone. One time I got to a bed and laid her down on the bed, but she had turned into a cat. And there was a cat laying spread eagle on the bed; it was kinda disturbing. Like has already been said, I assume this is just our subconscious telling us that these acts are wrong even in a fictional world. If you want to have sex, even in a lucid, it has to be consensual.
I'm always horny in my lucids, damn REM giving you a hard-on :angry:. Lately I've been adding "I will not have sex" to my Reality Checking. This morning I had a lucid and I was horny, but I immediately remembered I wasn't to have sex so I guess it's working.
03-17-2011, 09:41 PM
Rawracookie

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Originally Posted by LikesToTrip

I've had similar experiences when I've forced myself on DCs sexually. In a few lucids I would be horny so I'd find a girl and pick her up to take her to a bed. But when I'd get to the bed she would be gone. One time I got to a bed and laid her down on the bed, but she had turned into a cat. And there was a cat laying spread eagle on the bed; it was kinda disturbing. Like has already been said, I assume this is just our subconscious telling us that these acts are wrong even in a fictional world. If you want to have sex, even in a lucid, it has to be consensual.
I'm always horny in my lucids, damn REM giving you a hard-on :angry:. Lately I've been adding "I will not have sex" to my Reality Checking. This morning I had a lucid and I was horny, but I immediately remembered I wasn't to have sex so I guess it's working.

Sorry but... a cat is fine, too?

lol

Good job on remembering your goal middream.
03-18-2011, 06:38 AM
LikesToTrip

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Originally Posted by Rawracookie

Sorry but... a cat is fine, too?

No thanks, I'm not slayer. I did think about it for a fraction of a second though, but even for a dream thats pretty fucked up.
03-18-2011, 07:01 AM
Vertebrate

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Originally Posted by Rawracookie

Sorry but... a cat is fine, too?

lol

Good job on remembering your goal middream.

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Originally Posted by LikesToTrip

No thanks, I'm not slayer. I did think about it for a fraction of a second though, but even for a dream thats pretty fucked up.

http://img593.imageshack.us/img593/7103/ren08.jpg
:armflap:

I didn't know that lucids caused you to get horny. I'll have to watch out for that.
03-18-2011, 07:03 AM
LikesToTrip

Lol, I didn't realize that was a reference, what manga is that? Yea, in REM there is increased blood flow to the genitals, both for males and females, so being horny is pretty common.