Trouble with dreamguide

Ok I broke my dryspell this morning in a mini WBTB and I was at an indoor shopping mall thing and I was like "when I walk in this door my dream guide will be there" and I walk in and it's a like an office lobby. I ask the woman on the couch if she's my dream guide, she said no. I asked another who said no. I saw a man in the middle of the room with a boy about 5 years old. I asked this man and he said "no. It's called spirit guide, and I'm not it but my wife is. Her name is Emily (or Emma; I forgot) she's in this building" so I walled around this very confusing office, through hallways and such. The little boy was following me. I walk into a room and see a woman next to a bed crying out with blood all over the bed and a bloody little boy. I was disturbed so I ran around a corner and saw a metal room with a metal door and another little bloody boy saying HELP ME. I then ran out of the room because I was scared and continued the LD then got a FA that I didn't catch but yeah. I really want to find my dream guide and I keep hitting dead ends. Can anyone help me? What's an effective way to find it

Every time I tried to find my dream guide it's always been a different person. I think that dream guides aren't required to lucid dream, if you want to learn how to do stuff just learn from experience.

but I want to find me dreamguide, not necessarily for lucid dreaming purposes. I want to ask it questions and such
I have gone through a lot of trial and error with LDs and techniques and such.

I also did try just the past days again to find a dream guide. I do so every then and again, so far without success. Yesterday I actually did start a search on DV about this topic. Someone had gotten told by a DC, that he was not ready yet.
What I did so far is to call for a guide to show. Walking around in search for one. Trying to get into a "shamanic jouney" kind of LD - but somehow I got always stopped while searching for or going down a hole. Trying to fly upwards to a "higher level". Going through a mirror with intention to end up finding a guide.

As all of these did not work, now I thought to try something else. I am going to ask all the DC I meet, if they can teach me something.
Most of my LD do not last that long, maybe I just need more stability to find a guide. In any case it is one thing to do and I always experience something new, so it sure is not waste of dream time.

Maybe you could share some more of what you tried already?

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Originally Posted by erible

she's in this building

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it sounds like those 4 words broke your LD, it happens sometimes, you may have gotten over excited with the fact you've been searching for your DG for a while and hitting dead ends. Its best to try summon your DG, instead of walking through doors, walk to the first door you see and command your DG to be on the other side when you open it, make sure when summoning your DG you are FULLY LUCID and you ARE STABLE. and you may have more luck, i wish you much luck with finding your DG, it seems your quest is/was the same as mine, to find out more about yourself from your DG :)