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At what point did I state that children were unintelligent? I have been defending the intelligence and ability to grasp the concepts and understand lucid dreaming by a child the entire time.
As a child, were you not naturally curious and open minded to new concepts and ideas?
I will refrain from saying that all and every, but so far as natural curiosity, I believe it to be there in all children. I've yet to meet a young kid who already knew everything about everything without a hint of curiosity about anything.
Public school compared to home are two very different things when it comes to learning. For instance (this is just me obviously), public school never, not once engaged my imagination. I wanted to know when I could go home, all day long, every single day. The work I was given was boring to do, and I hated going through the motions of school in general. I associated learning and school with being boring. At home I was creative, I loved to draw, and read, and that was what I brought over into school to aid me getting through the long, boring day. Now I will have to concede to the point of children not believing EVERYTHING that is said by their parents, because even I didn't believe it all, but usually that was because my experience with what I was being told seemed or was different than what I was being told. With zero previous experience, sometimes I would accept the information as valid. That was something I should have approached differently.Quote:
Apologies for that: 5 year old. But I don't think we're getting anywhere. I'm saying that as a 30 year old who has worked in the public school system I have a decent grasp of what children are capable of. You don't agree. I don't think everyone under 13 automatically believes everything their parents say. That's where my 'strange relationship' comment came from. Did you really just accept everything your parents said before you were 13? Were you home every day before dark so the strangers wouldn't take you home? Did you never lie cause they told you not to? Were you nice to everyone cause that's the Golden Rule? I can say from MY experience- No. Nor is that what I have seen.
Your words, not mine. I never said that, and I have already stated in my previous post what I wrote " doesn't mean its the end all of that side of the discussion but that doesn't mean I am assuming either". If you had bothered to read rather than playing the superiority game you might have known.
Hello there Mr. Psychologist. Great job making up a whole background to what I wrote purely through semantics! That is some kind of stupid. This isn't Fox News.
Ah yes, you are using logic and I'm just "speaking for the entire world". Anything else you want to make up? Your ego is astounding.
Everyone, less insulting more debating. ;)
Yeah, sorry about that Jeff. It was inappropriate and uncalled for. I actually tried to delete it right after I sent it, but my computer isn't the most reliable :P.
We have strayed too far off-topic on this. The problem Loaf, is I am saying it seems quite possible to have genetics influence an ability to lucid dream. As in, genes positively affecting one's mind to determine the difference between the dream state and reality. Do I think that it directly influences lucid dreaming and literally makes people lucid....no, I think that is highly doubtful. I have no solid proof.
You are flat out saying no, it isn't possible. You have no proof.
I simply informed you on the dangers of using the words "everyone, all, everybody, etc." during a debate. Majority of the time, it will only work against you.
@Al3ZAY - I am mixing your argument with the other guys. Just ignore what I said to you, :P.
All I am saying is if there is no proof that genetics do have influence, it is more reasonable to say it doesn't than it does. Its like saying God must exist because we can't disprove him. I don't believe thats a reasonable approach, but if you disagree well okay that is fine too.
I think to me in the end it would be about personality, not genetics. I *believe* that everyone is a natural lucid dreams because *in my experience* any time I've asked "You how sometimes you're dreaming, but you know you're dreaming?" everyone has always said "yeah."
But personality I can see as having an effect. For a loose example, think of drugs. There are some people who just can not relax after taking something like acid, or even smoking weed. The loss of control makes them nervous, they get tense, and they freak out. To me that's a personality trait, not a genetic trait. It might be a learned behavior, but if you took the child of an uptight mother and raised them in a relaxed household I don't think the kid would be uptight.
Now apply that to lucid dreaming. I think having the right personality will make someone learn faster, especially in the begining when you're on that balance-beam of assuming control without destorying your dreamstate.
At this point in time, as far as anyone knows, genetics have no influence. We must accept that. That isn't to say we shouldn't explore it, but we can not go around and start saying it must be true with no evidence. Keep pursuing it, but don't make any claims until you have backing.
The only thing pathetic is how bad your analogy is. Better luck next time, champ :).
Being told its a bad analogy from someone who didn't even understand what it was, then a little condescending ending to try to grab a sense of authority back. Ha ha. :D
You are the one who looks bad; nobody cares what I say, but people won't take as much exception to a staff member being an idiot.
Oh, I understood quite clearly that you were using a terrible analogy, friend. ;)
You just did it again. Calling me "friend" and adding the winking emote which is only ever used condescendingly is really really transparent. I'm afraid you already dug yourself a hole. A 23 year old man is now getting into a bitch with a 15 year old because he slipped up in an area of basic English after focusing too much on a trivial part of my post. Hope it was worth it.
Hmm, you seem to think that telling your opposition he looks like an idiot and he has dug a hole, actually makes it true? Pretty sure my public standing hasn't changed in the slightest my friend. I'm not exactly sure what you are rambling on about either. Like I said, you are the one who used a horrible analogy. Surely, you don't actually believe a college junior didn't know what an analogy is. Clearly, you are still too young to determine the difference between a relevant analogy and an irrelevant one. This thread is gone off track, so it shall be locked. Have a good day, friend ;).