Thread: Intercourse in Dreams

yeah, but it's kind of pointless...
especially as that ends the dream..

I think excitement has something to do with it. It's like "Oh man, I'm gonna get laid now! Yippeeee!" and you wake up.

Be less excited about getting laid, or something....

there's a whole discussion about this in another thread, and my overriding question is: 'What is the point of getting laid in a dream?' what purpose does it serve?
there's like, a million more interesting things to do in a dream than go sleep with someone. Hell, you can do that on any friday or saturday night in most towns...so why would you want to dream it up?
Like i said, i did it once, but it wasn't intentional.

I think the obvious answer to that question is:

Because you can't find (Insert name of famous person, pop star, model, or Playboy Bunny here) in any average town on a friday or saturday night.

Originally posted by Pandragon
I think the obvious answer to that question is:

Because you can't find (Insert name of famous person, pop star, model, or Playboy Bunny here) in any average town on a friday or saturday night.

okay you got me there...i never thought of that...probably because i don't waste my time drooling over filmstars.

Well there ya go. We all have our own idea of paradise.

Yes, you can do this. Ive done it beofere. Its like the perfect fantasy, as perfect as a dream. Well thats ebacse it is! haha.

I've had sex in both lucid and non-lucid dreams and experienced orgasm in both. Unfortunately, in both types of dreams, orgasm usually results in my waking up (i.e., I come.. the dream goes).

I had an interesting one last night.

It had a storyline and everything....
Turned out i even had a baby with this girl, a lot of sexual stuff, but no orgasm.
It was like a drama from a movie script. trying to find the girl 'sandra' in a forest with aliens trying to get us. It was full on......

Non lucid but certainly an experience. I rarely have dreams that are this sexual.
not going into details.It was pretty romantic though.

Someone asked.
'What is the point of getting laid in a dream?' what purpose does it serve?

Dreams are like experiences, they arn't just 'dreams' as they are thought of and labeled. They do effect you. It is an experience, depending on the quality of the dream and consiousness resulting in different experiences.

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The fact that I have sex usually with the same person when I have sex signifies something to me. That is I love her.

One of the obvious reasons for sex in a dream is not having to worry about STD's and Aids and babies and condoms, and no strings attached,and...

Plus I think often people, who are lucid beginers espiacially, do things in LD's that are more instant gratification stuff like sex and flying. It seems like my first Ld's involved either Sex or flying. I've been LD'ing for years now and though I use flying to get to places my focus in Ld's are in other directions now more spiritually. For one I've been having really long Ld's for a little while now exploring all sorts of things and doing dream experiments and sex I believe can be a quick LD ender.

I think everything is more intense and amplified in most dreams. I started to have sex and boy she sure enjoyed it but then woke up half way threw. I remember using my fingers another time if you know what I mean and they never felt that intense in real life. I constantly keep running into really cute or sexy women without trying. Don’t think I could ever get tired of that. There are times when I would like to forget about it all together. In waking life it’s looked on by a lot of people as dirty. With diseases going around maybe it is dirty.

About half of my fully lucid dreams involve sex. The weird thing is, I don't seem to consciously decide to do it. I decide pretty much everything else, but I naturally seem to gravitate toward having sex, and just accept it. But it's lots of fun. Funny thing is, I'm a virgin, but I can safely say that what I am feeling is the way it actually feels, it's that real! And not to mention orgasms. I've been able to conscoiusly prolong the orgasm for nearly 30 seconds once. It was almost too much to handle. The weird thing is, rarely do my partner's stay the same-looking during the experience. They tend to morph quite a bit, and I don't like it. I want things to look more realistic. One time my partner literally turned into a tree with a giant female organ on the side of it.. but I didn't really notice until I woke up. Am I just weird?

Originally posted by Matchbook
One time my partner literally turned into a tree with a giant female organ on the side of it.. but I didn't really notice until I woke up. Am I just weird?

Weird.. who are we to say?.. But that's definately different!

Originally posted by Clairity
I've had sex in both lucid and non-lucid dreams and experienced orgasm in both. Unfortunately, in both types of dreams, orgasm usually results in my waking up (i.e., I come.. the dream goes).

are you saying that you actually had an orgasm, like u woke up and you had messed urself so to speak?

Originally posted by Lucidinthesky


are you saying that you actually had an orgasm, like u woke up and you had messed urself so to speak?

Well I'm female.. but to put it delicately, yes, I felt and had the physical sensations/reactions that go along with an orgasm.

Originally posted by Clairity
(i.e., I come.. the dream goes).

This is Hilarious Clairity I actually Love it... Haha!

Anyway Yeah I've head sex plenty of times in Lucid Dreams. But its no longer as exciting as it used to be. I guess because its all routine. Find A chick and Do her right there in public and people walk by and don't care. Find another girl walking by while you're doing one girl and Will her over to your sexual escapade and find another girl walking by and so on until you have just one huge massive orgy. But its nothing like Defying the Laws of Physics. But don't get me wrong it is fun!

LOL, I like your signature, ShadowNightWing!

Originally posted by ShadowNightWing
Anyway Yeah I've head sex plenty of times in Lucid Dreams. But its no longer as exciting as it used to be. I guess because its all routine. Find A chick and Do her right there in public and people walk by and don't care. Find another girl walking by while you're doing one girl and Will her over to your sexual escapade and find another girl walking by and so on until you have just one huge massive orgy. But its nothing like Defying the Laws of Physics. But don't get me wrong it is fun!

I understand totally.. after while lucid sex becomes "been there.. done that.. got the t-shirt"!

I'm now trying to have more "meaningful" experiences in my lucid dreams..

I havn't had sex in a lucid dream, probably because moralitys go with you into lucid dreams. I want to, but I can't. I do other stuff though .

Originally posted by irishcream
yeah, but it's kind of pointless...
especially as that ends the dream..

yep.

YOU GET TOO DAMN EXCITED!
Learn to keep your cool in everything, and to stay lucid for a lot longer...THEN try sex...

It all relates to a typical first LD....the noob gets too excited and wakes up...

last night i was close to screwing someone *coughalexkaoranoscough* then i woke up from the exitment! im such a loser

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