I always wake up from dream sex.
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I always wake up from dream sex.
Well maybe that's the problem. You're uncomfortable with dream sex so it feels awkward. For me, dream sex makes me feel free to express myself and my sexuality at the deepest level. Homosexual sex in dreams is common even if you're straight, but that's the humor in it all. In dreams you can do anything and bring out anything that lies inside your subconscious. I am very straight, but I've had dreams where I hook up with girls or I am a guy and I'm hooking up with another guy. I don't think these dreams are saying that we have a subconscious desire to explore homosexuality, they're just interesting viewing sex from another point of view. I wake up laughing because althought they are strange, I find my creativity interesting.
I'm not trying to tell you how to react to them, I do believe dreams are very personal. I just wanted to provide some insight since my dream sex felt awkward until I became comfortable with my sexuality. When you appreciate the beauty and uniqueness of your own imagination and the ability of your mind to express itself in dreams is when the best dreams unfold before your sleeping eyes :)
I do enjoy dream sex but it always makes me wake up.
Atras -- I was referring to the guy above you since he said dream sex felt awkward for him. I never does for me, actually feels better. But I wake up too, the trick is reaching orgasm before you wake up which is hard since getting too excited will wake you up. Sometimes I have to fight that feeling we were talking about in your other thread where as you feel yourself waking up, everything starts slipping away. I've learned to make the sex last longer to control your breathing and sometimes you just have to go with the good feeling and finish fast lol
Also go to sleep thinking about exactly what you wish to dream about and your mind will eventually play off of that. May take time so be patient! It took me a few years to get to the point I'm at now.
If you can master this, you'll see what I am talking about when I say it is AMAZING. I have other amazing dreams as well, but being able to orgasm from dreaming is definitely one of my favorite things to do in lucids. You feel so free and in touch with yourself :) Let me know how it goes!