Thread: Sex in dreams, or lack of....

Yea that is true in most cases. Somes times I will wake up just after but normally I wake up before. This is just normal dreams too, it seems even harder in lucid dreams. I have no idea why that might be.

well I did once do it without waking up, but usually I just have fun with the body as sick as that may seem

ahaha! no its all good i have no idea why its harder when youre luicd either! ive only ever had sex twice that i can remember in dr4eams and niether were lucid, but both were with people from my old school that i didnt even know very well!

being asexual, i don't have dreams involving sex. i never have, and i doubt i ever will. i didn't realize just how wierd that was until i came here.

I seem to have the same issue with sexual dreams. I will be lucid enough to initiate the contact but I wake up almost immediately. I have had sex once in a dream (a while ago) and it did feel pretty real. Other than that I always wake up right in the heat of the moment.

I think I figured out the reason for this. At least with myself, I usually close my eyes when I start to make out with a girl. Closing your eyes, as I'm sure you all know, is a sure-fire method for waking from a dream. So if you start having sex in a LD, make sure to KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN. I think this is the main reason for waking in this situation. Hope that helps.

< cybereality

good explanation! yes indeed many of us close our eys when making out im gonna keep my eyes open now even in real sex incase its a dream!

yes..i have..and i've never woken up either during it. I guess it helps to be a deep sleeper...

erm..... i have loads of sex in my dreams, prob because i have a high sex drive and its not being fullfilled but yeh i can maintain it, at first i found when i was lucid having it, i'd become non lucid because of having sex, but the hardest thing is....when ur having sex in a dream, the dc tends to morph into other things so you have to put alot of effort into concentrating, and you nvr tend to get the full view of everythink. as for maintaining, try to think of yourself nvr climaxing or that you must'nt

morph iv never had that problem maybe its because your thinking about it? and I dont mean thinking like you want it but that your thinking its gonna change thus looking at it

I don't know ... I guess I have a weird little problem when I have sex in dreams. This is bad .... Sometimes, the other person will change in the middle of the act
Luckily, when this happens in my dreams I "usually" stop. I think the weirdest change that has ever occurred to me has been when the girl changed into a bird! Well, that's about all I'm going to say on this subject

that happend to me once too eccept the girl turned into a guy and I woke very suddenly

I have the opposite problem. If I'm LDing and there is a girl around I can't resist having a bit of lucid nasty
quite annoying that I waste my time on such things, just can't seem to help my self

Anyone got tips to avoid lucid sex?

Think of something you would like to do instead, and repeat it to yourself often. Then when you go lucid you will think of that and do it instead.