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I think it's on every beginners mind, can someone please explain this to me? how is it? It's not my focus in learning to have lucid dreams, but I would lie if I said it weren't on my mind. I've briefly read that it's possible, but does it feel "real"? How can it be initiated? Please assume no knowledge! I am new :)
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I too would like to hear about this. I'm probably going to try it in my next lucid.. Which WILL be tonight :D.
It feels however you think it feels. Most people expect it to be just like real life or, if it's a particularly attractive person or somebody you fantasize about, it may feel better. From what I've heard if you haven't had sex in waking life it still feels very similar as if we naturally know how it is supposed to feel. The hardest part about doing this though if not waking up. Almost everybody wakes up during climax and it requires and incredible amount of dream control and stability to stay in the dream throughout the entire act, but this can be accomplished after a fair amount of practice.
However I suggest keeping your LDs for things that are impossible in the waking world such as awesome fights/supernatural powers etc. You can have sex in waking life but you can't fly by yourself or create fireballs out of nothing :)
that is all very true :) I have had sex in waking life (a lot) so I guess it'll feel like that. I will certainly make flying a priority though! First things first, I need to become lucid! I've started to remember my dreams REALLY well then when I wake up I say to myself: How the hell didn't I recognize that was a dream... I was skiing in Arizona with my step grandfathers son. No sense at all, didn't recognize that it was a dream. I'm still working on it:)
I find love making in a LD to be just as real as WL... if not better--as you can pick any fantasy/any person/any setting, and I usually last much longer! Like Burke said though: you're more than likely going to wake up from doing it.
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I agree though to an extent. The more a guy has had sex in waking life, the less amazing the idea of doing it in a dream. When I had to live away from home for 3 years to go to school, I could not find a girlfriend. I assure you that getting to have my way with sexy DCs was a very big thing.
It can feel many different ways. If it is a great dream you may even ejaculate in your sleep, or feel as if you accidently did. The details are always lacking. The scenery may fade or blur. You feel the parts you are paying attention to like the actual sex and what you put your hands on. The positions may change with no in between motions. The sex part can feel just like real sex or it will feel like masterbating if you have never had sex. that is when it goes great. The more skill you gain the more it will go perfect. Problems that may occur are frustrations like not being able to really penetrate, because your body is trying to dry hump an imaginary girl, and you dream is affected.Or, the DC suddenly deciding you are assulting her and refusing to be take part. The sex may also be less real, just like food can often taste bland in LDs. You may have troubles with the visuals, such as the DC changing shape or being only part solid.Quote:
Originally Posted by remaerc
To initiate it learn to create DCs by basic summoning methods, such as telling yourself the mall is just over there, going to the mall, and watching DCs expecting to see a good partner. After you see the DC you will have better luck if you make the scene more believable to yourself. Do not just pull her cloths off in the food court and start touching her. If you have lots of skill you could do that, but at first make it believable. Say, you see the DC, you start talking to them as if you are their boyfriend in the dream. Ask 'your girlfriend' to find some place private. Take them into a back room and don't be a forceful prick. Touch her hair and arms like you are suducing her nicely. It will be easier for your brain to accept that version, so it is more likely to work.
Burke is correct that it can cause people to wake up or loose lucidity. It does not have to be that way after you gain more skills, but at first it will likely cause the dream to end, maybe before climax even. I suggest that you do it if the dream is making it easy for you and you wantto do it. I would not try to make it happen until you start having more control and get good at stablizing. Yes however, you can get to a point in your training where you have lots of good sex LDs that do not end the dreamand are just great fun.
Once I was in an abandoned building and became lucid. I immediately commanded a slim, naked blonde to walk through one of the walls to have sex with me. She appeared and walked towards me. As she came close she pulled a knife from behind her back. We wrestled on the ground as I tried to disarm her. I was so freaked out that I woke up. I went back to sleep and had a regular dream until I saw the same naked blonde carrying a bigger knife. This triggered lucidity. Not only that, she now had a friend with her who was also naked and had a knife. They were definately looking for me. I skulked off and carried on with my lucid dream. I woke up and fell back to sleep until I had a normal dream where the friend of the psychotic blonde gave me the most awesome act of oral sex.
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Originally Posted by mcwillis
The first many times I tried I failed, but then it got easier. I can also say i've had some pretty intense O's while LD'ing. I've had wicked ones in real life, but lucid O's = x 1 000 000 better!
Once though, during LD love making, I felt his tip go up through my throat and fall apart in my mouth. pretty disturbing but I knew I was lucid and just forgot about it . LOL
i'm kind of a freak. Plus I get to experiment with girls in my dreams. and if I don't like it I move on :P
Also - don't make it a regular thing. Something about the REM sleep triggers our primal instinct but if you get used to doing that in your dream, it'll be hard to get unused to it and doing other things. Basically you become conditioned where you forget the other stuff you wanted to do, cause those instincts take over. its annoying.
Haha, it was really scary at the time.Quote:
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