Thread: Ever met a (potential) partner in a dream

I have an ocassional LD with reoccuring entiries from a dream (astral) plane. I have had small love affairs with two of them. One of them was very helpful in training me. She ended up causing me all sorts of trouble though. She would use me to make someone jelous. He would provoke me, but not touch me, I finally would attack him, and then I would get banned from the large Astral City I talk about so much (temp ban). Her sisters acted like they hated me, and I could not figure out what I had done. Turns out she was getting married to the guy! They had a big astral wedding feast which I attended and she actually started hitting on me there. I told her that as far as I was concerned she had caused most of my problems. I told her that I could not be her student anymore, but luckly another person volenteered to take over. I have not sceen her since.
Another case is this amazing trio of women from the same city. One is older and two are virtually twins. They never really teach me anything, but the older one is the one who taught me how to get into the city with out the other womans help. I have fooled around with all three, but the older one has me mesmerized or something. They come and get me sometimes and take me just to have fun. I can't get over her! If she looks me in the eyes, I can not get the image out of my head for many days. I do not know if she is just that perfect or if I am kind of under a spell. I would say I am in love with her, but that is silly. I don't even really know her name (those types are careful with true names). I just feel overwhelmed with her, and it is crazy, but what can I say. It is so intense that I have felt guilty, because I am married. My wife has actually given me permission to get involved with any of these entities, but I have never really expressed the emotions to her. Astral sex is one thing, but the overwhelming awe I feel for this entity is kind of my dirty little secret.
I do not know if that stuff relates exactly to what you are talking about, but I suppose you may actually be making contact with some thing beyond a dream image or DC.

Originally Posted by sivason

I just feel overwhelmed with her, and it is crazy, but what can I say. It is so intense that I have felt guilty, because I am married. My wife has actually given me permission to get involved with any of these entities, but I have never really expressed the emotions to her.

Do you think your wife would be threatened if she knew the truth? Do you think she would welcome the distraction from your lives together?

Originally Posted by Phion

Do you think your wife would be threatened if she knew the truth? Do you think she would welcome the distraction from your lives together?

The good thing I suppose is that these interactions with this entity are a rare enough thing. If you were to read my D.J. from about a month ago, in the dream who's title mentions the astral city, you would see I was completely unable to find this person on my own. I am totally beholden to when she chooses to come get me. Some time may be 3 times a month, then not at all for a few. The exposure is so little that it does not really effect my life with my wife. I think it is really just like the feeling someone famous liking you might cause. She is clearly some kind of powerful being, and I am just twitterpated and overly flattered. Crazy topic,,,

Originally Posted by sivason

Crazy topic,,,

Yea. Makes you wonder how much reality hinges on emotion...

Love this thread, yeah you are talking about OP

A few years ago I met a woman in a dream who I've never met in real life, and I must say it really felt like I connected with this person. We were in some kind of city walking around as if we were having our first date. When I woke up it felt like I was in love and I thought about the dream all day. The emotions faded over a few days however. I don't think it would've been healthy for me trying to live my life with a dream character anyway.

I have a habit of meeting amazing and unattainable redheads... >_<

Originally Posted by Arch

In a few occasions when I non lucid, expecially when in real life I'm feeling lonely I get dreams where I meet someone and they completely get me. They are never anyone that I have met in real life, but I usually wake up shortly after I meet them. Had one this morning and was so annoyed I couldn't get back into the dream.
Anyone else get these?

Originally Posted by Arch

Love this thread, yeah you are talking about OP

Originally Posted by sivason

The good thing I suppose is that these interactions with this entity are a rare enough thing. If you were to read my D.J. from about a month ago, in the dream who's title mentions the astral city, you would see I was completely unable to find this person on my own. I am totally beholden to when she chooses to come get me. Some time may be 3 times a month, then not at all for a few. The exposure is so little that it does not really effect my life with my wife. I think it is really just like the feeling someone famous liking you might cause. She is clearly some kind of powerful being, and I am just twitterpated and overly flattered. Crazy topic,,,

Originally Posted by Ctharlhie

I have a habit of meeting amazing and unattainable redheads... >_<

I have dreams where I meet people that I am fond of that I never meet in reality, and I wish I could meet them. I have noted them and named them.

Meet them in your lucid dreams

i have met entities i resonated with. i suppose that if i were looking for a partner, knowingly or not, that they would have qualified.

Originally Posted by friek4fun

i have met entities i resonated with. i suppose that if i were looking for a partner, knowingly or not, that they would have qualified.

I have dream characters I get on well with.