You see, that's what you think wrong ;)
Since people before me already explained the problems with this argument the OP (and you) bring up, i don't see the need to repeat it. This subject is fairly simple: You try to push your finger through your hand and if it goes through, you are dreaming. If you use a toilet paper roll to create an illusion, that's not gonna prove whether it's a dream or not. The two things are entirely different.
Creating the illusion of a finger going through your hand is nothing like truly trying to push it through the hand... therefore there is no point in this.
As for most of your post, you say you know forums well... To me it seems differently, because if you would know forums well then you would know it well enough to not take anything too seriously ;)
I know that this post helped you to calm yourself down, but trying to make me look stupid is not gonna work. Exactly because i don't take things seriously on the internet. You should follow this too :)
Btw, my original language is not english, so it takes me more effort to write a long post, therefore i try to reason everything in the shortest way possible.
Do you know another language? If yes, you might understand. If not... well... ;)