The first thing I'll say is that, lucid dreaming is a skill first and foremost; it isn't something that can be tried like a video game or pot or something. It takes a little time just to build up the requisite dream recall. From when I first signed up on DV, it was about 3 weeks until I had my first lucid dream. Lucid dreaming is something you practice at, and as you have them more and more frequently, you practice and improve dream control...
...and over time you learn to do some really cool shit. If you have proper respect for the level of effort it takes to get good at lucid dreaming, you'll be building a skill that will provide you with some amazing and memorable experiences. There are all kinds of things you can do with lucid dreams - have a look at Dr. Stephen LaBerge's Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming if you;re interested.
So, point is: either or both of you could just get a lucky break tonight - but if you don't, don't get discouraged, if you keep trying I promise you'll be having LD's sooner or later - probably sooner.
So with that, I wish you good luck.
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