a question for everyone

hello people i am a new lucid dreamer but i am interested in lucid dream from the very beginning of my life .i always read everything which ever come to me related to lucid dreaming and i talk to everyone who is a lucid dreamer.
i had read many books and countless articles about lucid dreaming and i personally found a lot of differences in one's ability to have lucid dreams . for example Robert waggonner have more then 30 years of experience in lucid dreaming and he had more then 1000 lucid dreams ,giz edward said at the starting of his lucid dreaming he use to have 5 lds a week average, and i have two friends here who started lucid dreaming 6 and 8 months before and their dream journal entries surprise me always (3 to 4 lucid dreams per night).
so robert waggoner = 30 multiply 365 = 10950 nights divided by 1000=10.95
so he had a lucid dream every 10 nights approx
giz on some time of his life had 5 lds every 7 nights approx
my school friends 3 to 4 every night .

i guess we are missing something its true that everyone is different but only because they are living in different place ,belongs to different religion,having different friends and family,having different wants and nature, etc .but all this can change our dream enviroment dream characters and our dreams but not quantity of our dreams their has to be some way through which we can all increase our chances to have more and more lucid dreams .some people say we need experience to get more lucid dreams but this data shows this also may not be the case. Robbert waggoner is pretty good i think and much more experienced then my school friends but his ld count is so low as compared to my friends . is there any kind of secret thing some people get it and some just miss it?

what you guys thing why is this difference did you ever found anything in your lucid dreaming practice which turned on everything and you started having more lucid dreams? or after that you became so confident about success?
i only had three lucid dream till now and they all are not with full awareness .i want to be fully aware in y lucid dreams as i am now so that i can think with my full mind. my plan is to talk to my dream character about the topic i am talking to you here .our subconcious mind is solely ours so if we are different then also it will give us advice which will perfect for us like i will ask any dream character that hey what is the best technique for me which can give me most lucid dreams and if he says he don't know or i thought his suggestion is not right then i will ask him who can help me in this regard maybe he will tell me whom to meet their. this idea is inspired by robbert waggoner and robert moss they both moved forward taking help from their subconcious mind . so as soon as i get in a lucid dream i will do it and tell you all what happened .i hope you understud my language because i know it is pathetic.