Trip to Arizona?

I had a dream about my father last night. He passes away two years ago and this is the first time he has come to me in a dream. He told me to visit Arizona He also looked as sick as he did when he passed away. Skinny and hurting. He even had me give him somd pain meds. My hands were shaking so bad and I was afraid I was going to hurt him. A little background: I livd in Georgia and have no reason to go to Arizona. I have never been to Arizona. His birthday is this month, Next month it will be two years since ge has passed away. I am a 35 year old female, mother and wife. I am logical and reasonable, but this dream still has me in tears. I thought a lived one was suppose to come to you in your dreams lookibg healthy and happy. Why would he still look sick and in pain? Why Arizona? Please help me ease thus feeling.

ERMAGHERD THIS IS THE FAWKING 20000nd THREAD IN THIS SUB-FORUM.

You should post this in the Non-Lucid dream forum.

But learning to lucid dream could also help in a situation like this. I am really sorry.

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Originally Posted by NinjaBtch

ERMAGHERD THIS IS THE FAWKING 20000nd THREAD IN THIS SUB-FORUM.

You should post this in the Non-Lucid dream forum.

But learning to lucid dream could also help in a situation like this. I am really sorry.

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Yeah, it goes in the Dream Interpretation forum haha. Any of you lovely mods wanna move it?

I don't know much of interpretation and all that jazz, so I can't help ya there. I hope you can get this dream sorted soon.

First, I'm sorry about your father and that your dream brought up some uncomfortable emotions. I can relate in a way, and it's never pleasant.

As far what it means, no one can tell you for sure. Like dream dictionaries, they only give you a general idea of what something may or may not mean, but they can never give you an exact answer. That's not to say there isn't any hope.

I don't believe every single dream we have has some underlying meaning to it. I've had dreams where it was just random images from the television shows I watched that day, and other dreams just as superficial. Although, others do have importance to them. Lucid dreaming allows us to figure out the "why" behind what we dream. Self-exploration, really.

People consult dream characters, but get mixed results. I would either ask your father in your dream why he appeared, or ask your subconscious or "dream guide" as some prefer to use. I wouldn't worry too much about the answer. I've read accounts where people confront their nightmares and discover it was just a symptom of an underlying feeling of something like stress or some form of fear. Nothing really--for lack of a better word--"traumatic."

I hope this helps you at least a little, and you find the answers you're looking for.