Bad guys in Lucid Dreams.

This problem happen to me 80% of times when i lucid dream.
Ex: i am in a dream i do a RC know i am dreaming do some stabilization and i am still calm, i look in front of me a man is standing, and he start a fight, kungfu , special powers , super jumps. One time my mother came to me i was lied on the bed (it was a FILD, it always start on my bed) and she where like a monster and she started hitting me and i wake up, but the other time i said to my dad i am going to fly he became angry walked to me but i remembered somone posted on the forum to feel love to them and they will calm down and it worked my dad calmed down. But this problem just make me very angry, and take all my time and i can't do anything anymore because i wake up after the fight, why my subconsious want to fight with me? Do someone experience or experienced it in the past? How can i fix this? Or is it just expectation?

Perhaps try ask the DCs why they want to fight? It could be that they're (Your subconscious is) trying to tell you something?

Fight back, dude. You're Neo in your dreams. Monsters should fear US, not the other way around.

Learn to see yourself as the ultimate terror of the dreamworld, and the monsters will go away.

I always fight but it never end so i wake up after a while.

I think your issue here is your expectations. If you're becoming lucid and expecting things to turn bad straight away then that's what will happen. It's like most things in lucid dreams, take flying for example; If you dont believe you can do it, then you will struggle. Or if you are mid-flight and have a sudden thought of 'What if i suddenly couldn't fly anymore?,' you'll likely fall from the sky.

So basically you need to be approaching your dreams more positivley and confidently, maybe set yourself a challenge you want to complete next time you're lucid, then just focus on finding that and completing it.

However I know it can be hard to keep your mind on certain objectives when you've got scary thoughts in the back of your mind, that keep trying to come back. But you have to remember if you are indeed attacked, and you are infact lucid, then you are in complete control -A click of the fingers and you can make anything you like vanish. A swipe of your hand and you can turn an angry attacker into a cute little puppy.

You can do anything you choose in your lucid dreams, you just have to believe in yourself.

Best of luck

It cannot hurt you so you don't need to fight. Just go touch it and smile to it. Don't get negative emotions or you will make it worse. I think it happens often because you expect it to happen.

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Originally Posted by Nikakwa

This problem happen to me 80% of times when i lucid dream.

Ex: i am in a dream i do a RC know i am dreaming do some stabilization and i am still calm, i look in front of me a man is standing, and he start a fight, kungfu , special powers , super jumps.

One time my mother came to me i was lied on the bed (it was a FILD, it always start on my bed) and she where like a monster and she started hitting me and i wake up, but the other time i said to my dad i am going to fly he became angry walked to me but i remembered somone posted on the forum to feel love to them and they will calm down and it worked my dad calmed down.

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this problem just make me very angry, and take all my time and i can't do anything anymore because i wake up after the fight, why my subconsious want to fight with me?

Do someone experience or experienced it in the past?

How can i fix this?

Or is it just expectation?

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Hey Nikakwa

I just read this short thread and post #4 by sivason and post #6 by sunfire are amazing (to me) and may be helpful for you Nikakwa

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http://www.dreamviews.com/general-lu...-dcs-mind.html

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