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Okay, this is mainly for the ladies, but guys can answer too, just reverse it.
Has anyone here ever had a dream in which they've been the opposite sex?
I have, and it feels totally weird. In one dream, i was actually a man, in another dream, i was still a woman, but thinking like a man.
Please discuss, this could be interesting!
This has never happened to me.
I can imagine it must be a really weird feeling.
Do you have any issues with your sexuality or your sex?
Go on admit it you wish you were a man really dont you!! lol.
I would like to have a dream where I was a woman, might get a bit distracted by myself though!
I have read post from quite a few people on here who seem to regularly have these dreams, I'm sure they'll reply soon.
he he, sometimes i wish i was a man, they seem to have it so much easier!! Except, i'd hate to have to shave every day...
You don't have to shave...
If I dreamt I were a woman I'd probably bake a killer pie and then maybe clean the bathroom or do some laundry.
Hear, hear!! I haven't shaved in . . . probably two and a half years.Quote:
Originally posted by Gwendolyn
You don't have to shave...
doesn't it itch?! I don't like beards, they look horrible...and they're scratchy...Quote:
Originally posted by kage23
Hear, hear!! I haven't shaved in . . . probably two and a half years.
I've morphed several times as a women to try social settings and see how it comes out in my head, manipulating people, its fun :D ; and I once had a strange dream where I was Tifa from FF7 running on top of canon out to the highwind, very awsome!. On diferent note: I shave like once a month, It don't itch form me except for when I shave :|
Uh... Ok then...
I've a few dreams where I was a dude. My favourite being when I was running up this hill, naked, and at some point I looked down and thought to myself, "Eh, that's NOT supposed to be there."
It was kinda funny, I didn't figure out that I was dreaming, I was actually trying to remember when I had a sex change operation. When I woke up I just labelled myself a "Dumbass" and went back to sleep.
Weird.
That's always the way with dreams isn't it? You get a glaringly obvious dreamsign, and you don't even bother to check. My favourite one has to be when i had a dream and my brother gave me a biscuit barrell that said 'open for lucidity'.Quote:
Originally posted by mitzie_31
Uh... Ok then...
I've a few dreams where I was a dude. My favourite being when I was running up this hill, naked, and at some point I looked down and thought to myself, "Eh, that's NOT supposed to be there." *
It was kinda funny, I didn't figure out that I was dreaming, I was actually trying to remember when I had a sex change operation. When I woke up I just labelled myself a "Dumbass" and went back to sleep.
Weird.
I've only been a woman twice that I can remember... I was thinking just like myself though. Another time I was a woman and gave birth, which was wierd. I have no sexuality issues at all, I'm completely straight. I think it's just my mind being random.
No sexual issues for me either, but i've often wondered how the other half live...
Like with shaving, and waking up in a certain state of mind...
I couldn't cope with that.
lol.
:lol:
Ha! Yeah, right. You could do that now. :wink:Quote:
Originally posted by mongreloctopus
If I dreamt I were a woman I'd probably bake a killer pie and then maybe clean the bathroom or do some laundry.
YepQuote:
Originally posted by burns91
Ha! Yeah, right. You could do that now. *:wink:
Nope, never done it, but it could concievably be fun. It would be one of those things that you can only really do in dreams. Iguess it would be cool, but it's not so different is it? I mean, we'd still just be boring humans.
I was a girl once in a non lucid dream. It was weird because these two people were after me and I hid in the airing cupboard until they came up the stairs, which is when I came out and kicked them back down. If I remember I was quite a pretty girl (man this is destroying my manlyhoodness).
I remember waking up almost depressed it was a dream *almost*
sounds like pirates of the caribbean
haven't been able to change sexes while dreaming, but i've planned to try it for awhile now.
the male body has always disgusted me. i feel like such an ape. not saying i'm going to grow tits and get some doctor to slap a vag in me, but it'd be interesting and pleasurabe to be female while dreaming...
Hehe, I had a dream that I was a dude again last night. When I say "again" I'm referring to previous dreams I've had where I was a dude, not that I have actually been a dude before in real life, so don't go twisting that! I think I may have had the dream because I was thinking about this stuff yesterday.
Anyways, I was in this shopping centre, it's was dark and no one was around. I was just walking up to this escalator and was trying to figure out why the hell I was naked. I became lucid at that point, I can't remember too well what I was thinking when I did though. I had a bit of control so yay! I was just trying to find some clothes and saw these chicks standing near this empty shop, they were looking at me funny, I didn't give a shit because I was dreaming so whatever. It took me a bit to realize that I was actually a dude. I was thinking, "Ok, this is kinda cool, I'm a dude, and there are some hot chicks with no one else around..." I'm sure you could guess what I did at that point. :D
Unfortunately I couldn't feel or hear much, so I was getting frustrated and yelled, "Being a dude sucks!"
Oh well, it was interesting I guess. Something "fun" to tell...
Weird! I had a dream that I was a male last night! I wonder if it's because I read this topic yesterday... Anyway, it wasn't anything about being naked or whatever. I just knew I was a guy, and I was flying around New York city, trying to deliver a top-secret parcel to someone. I think I became lucid at a few points because I willed myself to fly higher and faster, and in different positions - but I didn't hold the lucidity or dream control for long.
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Originally posted by mongreloctopus
If I dreamt I were a woman I'd probably bake a killer pie and then maybe clean the bathroom or do some laundry.
LMFAO
If I dreamt I was a woman I'd have to be slut, no doubt about it.......... Correction, make that a lebian slut.
Can't wait for my next lucid! Lesbian orgy here I cum.
Lebian???
Lesbian I meant.
Who wants to be from Lebanon.
They make delicious falafel in lebanon.
LESBIANS! WOO HOO! If I was a dude I would soooo be a lesbian - that makes no sense but I had to say it.
Ah, wait, I would be a lesbian in a man's body I think.... Now that makes sense. Hehe.
interestingly enough, i had my first dream in which i was female after reading this yesterday.
i had a lucid where i flew over my backyard (which was submersed in water), and then dove underwater. when i came up i looked briefly at the side of my house and lost lucidity.
suddenly i was up in a non-existent bedroom situated on a peak of my house.. i was sitting on a tall bunkbed, with the top mattress level with an open window. my legs were dangling outside.
the wierd thing is i could clearly remember the lucid i just had, but i didn't carry the lucidity into the windown scene. twas a FA. i was mainly concerned that i was so close to the open window. i thought i had been moving in my lucid and almost fell clear out.
after i had this worrisome thought, my perspective zoomed out to third person, and i got a good look at 'myself'. i was about 18, with light brown shoulder length hair, and average build. pretty cute actually :D
now, if only i'd been lucid and in the first perspective...there would have been some dream exploration going on, let me tell y'all...
This should be made a tutorial then :P seeing how many people dreamt their sex change :lol:
I've been a girl on several occasions and most of them I turned lesbian :D The experience is pretty hazy tho.
But the coolest sex change thing I've tried so far was this:
I had ultimate control over a nonlucid dream once and mind controlled a girl into having sex with me... I've made some adjustments to my male body (*cough* second penis *cough) and had fun with the girl for a while... Then it hit me - I have ultimate control, why dont I actually become that chick and have sex with myself? I did that and then went one step further - I felt *both* bodies at once (technically - masturbation :) ) that was a really cool experience... try that if you dare :P
I do it enough while I'm awake...For me, dreams are wasted on sex and masturbation. I'd rather spend time trying to shoot lasers out of my eyes or turn cars into giant badgers.
Many years ago I dreamed I was a guy and had the 1st person point of view of a guy. [/end of that discussion]
I've had several dreams where the main character has been a guy, but it's usually in 3rd person. Or, sometimes in 1st person I'll just know that I (my character) is a guy. It's not a very common occurrence for me, though.
-Amé
I've never had an opposite sex dream, but ... if you could be whoever you wanted in your dream...who would it be? :lol: I know this isn't exactly the topic but I was curious.
I have had many nonlucid dreams where I was female. To be honest it doesn't seem any different.
Huh, just last night I had a dream in which I was a guy! It was third person though... looking back, I found myself rather cute ^_^ I even had a girlfriend in the dream. A few weeks ago I had a dream where I was Tucker (I think that's his name) from Star Trek. I was in a unisex onsen... which is a Japanese hot spring place in which everyone walks around nekkid! :shock:
Honestly, I don't know why never wind up having more *ahem* questionable dreams with the stuff my mind thinks up...
I have had one dream that I can recall.
I was old. seventies. I new in my sole that I only had a few hours to live. It was very liberating. Liberating because I felt what it was like to feel at ease with death.
Possibly because my subconscious thought a woman would be more suitable for that understanding or maybe because my mother is gone. I really do not know why I was in the first person perspective of a woman.
yeah ive done this before in lucid dreams when i become a female.
lol this post just reminded me of a dream I had last night :P
apparently I was a virgin lesbian that had a penis.... my playmate girlfriend shoved a huge dildo up my vagina (hurt like the devil) and I remember thinking "it wont hurt so bad after I do it more" which we DID do it more, eccept she was shoving her fist in me and scratching up my insides :o
so yes, thanks so much for bringing back these great memories of me losing my vaginal virginity..... :?
PS: mitzie I heart your avitar :mrgreen:
I had a dream where I was this hot girl I know, and I was walking around our school and all the guys were checking me out. It was weird.
I have never been the opposite sex in any of my dreams, and I definately don't want to.
Hi Irish,
I have had dreams in which, walking past a glass or a mirror, I noticed that I was a woman. But my thinking had not been noticeably different. There are masculine extremes as well as feminine extremes, but also a good deal of personality overlap.
Most instructive on extreme sexual roles is the behavior and personality assumed by transvestites. They seem to be honed on magnets for adopting the most extreme polar behaviors of the opposite sex. their extremism in their role playing can be fascinating on the short term, but positively irritating if one is subjected to their antics longer than required to satisfy a momentary curiousity, as all extreme behavior eventually becomes annoying.
I thought girls shave, too? ;)
I've never had a dream as a woman but it surely would be a darn sexy experience.
I suppose they do not talk a great deal about it, but most women 'wax' or 'tweezer' themselves often.Quote:
Originally posted by PhilipJFry
I though girls shave, too? ;)
Once I was a Volunteer with an Organization that fed the Homeless, and many of our clients were women, even young women, who had ended up on the Streets, and, yes, they were remarkable for the great deal of facial hair that they could produce, since they had no facilities to keep themselves clean and trimmed.
I don't think he means facial hair...Quote:
Originally posted by Leo Volont
I suppose they do not talk a great deal about it, but most women 'wax' or 'tweezer' themselves often.
Once I was a Volunteer with an Organization that fed the Homeless, and many of our clients were women, even young women, who had ended up on the Streets, and, yes, they were remarkable for the great deal of facial hair that they could produce, since they had no facilities to keep themselves clean and trimmed.
Well anyway, I only truely remember one sex-change dream. Well actually two, but one was a pretty horrible experience. Anyway, my first one was when I was just a girl somehow. I decided to test out my girl organs so I shoved something up there. I remember it felt good, but different than what it feels like when you're a dude. It was slightly painful, but tight or something and felt better overall. Weird.
The second one is horrible. Some little girls around the ages of 9 or 10 captured me and tied me down to this bed. They then said they were going to make me a girl and I was like, "NOOO!!!" But I couldn't do anything cuz they had tied me down. The process lasted a while and then they finally made me a girl and were all like, "You're better now!". Pretty scary experience.