can talking with girls in my dreams help me with reality girls??? (being friends and then a couple and then you know what , hehe)
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can talking with girls in my dreams help me with reality girls??? (being friends and then a couple and then you know what , hehe)
Yeah definately, this would be very useful for me because i'm not very confident with askin girls out, if you have trouble trying to meet and be friends with the girl you like you can act out all the scenarios in a lucid dream with no worry of consequences, you can build your confidence within the dream and find the best suiting scenario and way to get to know her. Then when it comes to asking her out do the same, run the scenarios in your lucid dream, pick the best one and try it, at least with confidence you can try it since you've built your confidence in the dream. Then when it comes to what i pressume you mean sex and stuff like that you can yet again do the same thing, if your new to some of the stuff you can go through the different scenarios and choose the one your most confident with, that way when it comes to the real thing you will go in with confidence and mental skill, you will know what to do and not have to worry about little things that might ruin it for you, its like a dating simulator in your mind with the broadest range of scenarios that allow you to get the best possible results when it comes to the real thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by viking
damn , that was help full. thnx a lot
i'm th exact same. askin girls out is tuff ut lds make it all better
:) *sighs contently* :)
Not really, if you are controlling the atmosphere, how is that like real life? Grow some confidence, a pair, and ask out whom ever.
I think it could help you, pretty much i think it can help with any fears.
For me it would be spiders, and...hmmm i think thats all im afraid of besides hell.
And getting arrested for downloading so much music Lol.
Were the hell is RAMMA!??
8)
Because an LD is like the ultimate simulator. Sure, you're controlling it, but it SEEMS real, and so in your waking life, it will feel like you already did it and had fun with it.Quote:
Originally Posted by PSmolik90
Sureeeee it is. ITS NOT! Youre controlling it. And that DOES matter, dont say it doesent. In a real simulator eg. plane. If you crash into the ground you DIE. In a LD thats not necesary! lol?Quote:
Because an LD is like the ultimate simulator. Sure, you're controlling it, but it SEEMS real, and so in your waking life, it will feel like you already did it and had fun with it.[/b]
Seriously... in several LDs, when I ask a random girl in a street "hey, could you get naked right now?" she replies "yes of course !" and immediately starts to undress.
Sure, it could build confidence... a little too much :bigteeth:
But you have to make it a reasonable amount realistic, or you will have uber confidence and then get totally dumped or rejected.
you are right,
but if makethe dream realistic like tomdub said it would be like a real situation so i can know what would posibly happen.
all that a ld about girls would do would lead to more confidence in the dream world... i dont know how much of it would carry over. i am an extrovert so i can talk to girls and people i dont know pretty easily, does anyone have an experience where a ld has helped them?