I would like someone to create a tutorial on how to avoid turning LD's into sex stories lol.
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I would like someone to create a tutorial on how to avoid turning LD's into sex stories lol.
You're the person in control;)
Yeh thats a good idea.
I would definitely need to read that.
Someone write it!!! :pissed::pissed:
Well, if you're having sex dreams, doesn't that mean you want to have them on some level? Why fight it? :P
It just takes practice. Think of some other things that you want to accomplish, and incubate those. Eventually you will start doing those things instead of immediately trying to find a good-looking DC every time you get lucid.
Thats what i do now and it works, apart from when i am approached by a very good looking dream character (not always successful then) but that hasn't happened for a few weeks now.Quote:
Originally Posted by Moonbeam
http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...566#post629566
I just wrote it, there you go. Go have your non-sexual lucid dreams now and enjoy :)
Well, yea...if they start it, then just go with it. ;) I figured he was the one starting it all. I think that is a common thing to do at first, but it goes away after a while.Quote:
Originally Posted by mylucidworld
He just needs another worthy goal.
I think getting some in waking life would help with the over-abundance of sex dreams.
Not necessarily.Quote:
Originally Posted by seeker28
I think that it's just about wating ... at some point you will learn that it will only ruin your dreams. At least thats what i feel is happening to me at this point, after having wasted so many lucids:oops:
Not necessarily, if you master lucid sex it won't be an issue.Quote:
Originally Posted by MAXxyz
Though that would be difficult to achieve.
Of course it would'nt be a problem at all, if you were able to do it without waking up. If you are skilled enough to do that, i guess that you are also skilled enough to leave the sex behind, and do something else, and then there would'nt be a problem at all...Quote:
Originally Posted by mylucidworld
:shock:
Interesting... let me know how that comes along...
It's like masturbation. It's impossible to stop.
Not that I've ever experienced sex in dreams before....
I say it's all in self-control. When lucid, sure I've wanted to do those sort of things, but I know I can always do them, lucid or not, and go on doing the things I feel I'd die if I didn't try while lucid.
That's true, but usually you'd have plans and get sidetracked and end up not getting the original plan done. Happened to me before. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Like A Bird Without Arms
Very nice avatar. :D I love Crimson King.
It's funny because I actually have the opposite problem. Lol.
I think of my wife... unless it is my wife then I get side tracked.
Rofl Enigmik! :)
If only my dreams wer about sex more often. I always wake up before it happens...after a whole dreams worth of building.
People go to bed with plans?Quote:
Originally Posted by StephenT
Of course. All successful lucid dreamers do. Otherwise, how would you know if you actually became lucid or if you just dreamed that you did?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mattrick
Not to derail, but could you explain that? I don't really get how those would be connected.Quote:
Originally Posted by luciddream