Lucidity minus the Control

Yesterday, I had my first lucid dream with real control. It was short, but teleporting was natural untill I tried to teleport to Sex Land. That's my first problem. But previous to that, I have become lucid, but I awoke when I tried to teleport or fly or do anything fun. And today, I was being chased by a tiger and said I'm probabally dreaming. So I tried to teleport to a certain roon and woke up. Any advice? Here are the questions again.

1: In my first real controled lucid, I lost it when I strided for lucid sex. Why?
2: Whenever I try to fly, teleport, ect. I wake up. Why?
3: Any good alternitives to DILDs?
Thanks

1. Your horny?
2. Its an overexciting experience, many people wake up when doing completely crazy things the first few times.. Also it MIGHT be possible you had a false awakening.. did you do a few RCs?
3. Click me